Anonymous wrote:I've been watching the show and I've also seen the various documentaries about it. I've landed on two things can be true - the adoptive mother is toxic and abusive (and the dad is a spineless twit) and Natalia Grace is a deeply disturbed young lady and probably did many of the things she's been accused of doing.
My nephew and his wife adopted a daughter from relatives of his wife's--actually I think in-laws of a cousin of hers. She had a lot of problems and was diagnosed with RAD. The girl was 4 when they adopted her and there were a lot of problems--including a stretch when she was about 9-10 where they had to lock up knives and were considering residential care for her. I tend to be skeptical of RAD as a diagnosis--I think it's over-used--but they were able to avoid residential care and at 14 she has no problems whatsoever.
The baby bottle "treatment" is nonsense, and an Oregon therapist lost her license for life over it (that was overruled but an example of it being out there). I'm skeptical of the version of Jacob's autism his mom claimed (won't ever read or talk, etc, and then he does Ted talks at 12).
The behaviors are not uncommon for kids adopted from Ukraine and Russia (not sure about other countries).
In the program they show a dental x-ray in the montage about getting her age changed, but apparently the x-rays were NOT used in court and showed her true age, not the age the Barnetts claimed.
Interesting tidbit from an NIH published study of transnational kids adopted by Danish families:
The risk of developing precocious puberty was significantly increased 10 to 20 times in adopted girls compared with girls with Danish background. The risk of developing precocious puberty depended on the country of origin. In children immigrating with their family, the risk of developing precocious puberty was only marginally increased. Older age at adoption significantly increased the risk of precocious puberty in adoptees independent of region of origin. The incidence rate ratio was significantly higher in children adopted after the age of 2. In children immigrating with their family, we found no effect of age at migration.