Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 23:55     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

Keep reminding yourself that they are not victims. They don't like advocating for others so they don't want you to advocate for them.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 14:59     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

Anonymous wrote:Who have never stood up for me?

I think it’s my sense of right or wrong that kicks in. How do I suppress it?


That's who you are, why change it for who they are?
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 14:35     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

I remind myself to mimd my own business or that what I have to say doesn't need to be said.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 14:32     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

Anonymous wrote:Super vague, sounds dramatic, and too many people. I can't name one who should have stood up to for me.
I've been abused and taken advantage of left and right, but I just kept going.
Not only did I go on to do extremely well, but karma got most of the bad guys.


Talk about dramatic!
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 14:31     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

Super vague, sounds dramatic, and too many people. I can't name one who should have stood up to for me.
I've been abused and taken advantage of left and right, but I just kept going.
Not only did I go on to do extremely well, but karma got most of the bad guys.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 14:07     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

It'll take time. Just don't do it. You have to train yourself not to say anything and prevent yourself from getting involved. Physically walk away.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 12:44     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

This is too vague.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 12:12     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

Walk away? I don't know. If you're the type that wants to stand up for what's right, I don't see why it's transactional.
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2025 11:58     Subject: How do I resist the urge to stand up for people

Who have never stood up for me?

I think it’s my sense of right or wrong that kicks in. How do I suppress it?