Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

Same

Never. If it ever happens I’ll welcome it!

Only when I wear a wedding ring

Encourage your husband to enjoy his weekends in his most destroyed T shirts. His most worn jeans. And his most utilitarian boots. Disheveled hair. Watered down iced coffee from Dunkin. Kids in tow. That’s the ticket. Keeps all the suitors at bay.

What does being hit on actually entail? Asking to get a drink sometimes? Or just a compliment?

Sometimes I get the feeling that the posters who say they're hit on constantly (or their spouse are) may just be misinterpreting.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

Oh wow I don't think I'd be comfortable with that. Do you get hit on as much and how's his reaction?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

Woman flirt with him while he is with me. Plenty of times at the same event or when we are adjacent (not blatantly a couple) woman will hit on him. Frequently when we are vacation it will happen.

No, not true about the elite. I have several types I may hit on and none are elite really.
I like the calm older gentleman like my boss, and Latinos who can dance, cook, and who do physically hard work.
Latinos are much better at recognizing that I'm interested.
Now, my boss is clueless as heck or plays hard to get. Both are cute. Manager suggested I cornered him and that he would love it. I'm not convinced.

It's not common for women to hit on men because they don't have to. Men who get hit on must be very very attractive because women find most men unattractive anyways. So the ones who actually catch women's attention are in an elite club.

Anonymous wrote:DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

He gets hit on while with you? I think women hit on men more than women get hit on

DH is hit on all the time. I think it’s funny. He quickly mentions he is “more than happily married” and doesn’t let anything happen beyond that.

Anonymous wrote:Every day..it's really bothersome, being looked at as a piece of meat!

Would love to be you!

Every day..it's really bothersome, being looked at as a piece of meat!

Not nearly as often as I'm hit on my men

I am curious how often are you hit on by woman in this area and when and how does it happen and how do you respond if you are seeing someone especially?