Anonymous wrote:Don’t divorce if you have kids. You owe to your kids to remain married. Just separate and regulatly meet for dinners and spend time together with the kids. Be good coparents. Oh and be sure to meet for booty calls weekly or whatever works for both of you. While this is not conventional, it is still better than divorce.
Anonymous wrote:You cannot work this out. Accept it and lawyer up!
Anonymous wrote:Ask him if he is ready to try therapy, meeting clergy or taking a trip so you two can give it one more try before calling it quits.
If you really want to save this marriage, ask him what would change his mind.
If nothing works, then let it go. You'll survive but you'll know why he asked and you'll know that you tried your best.
Anonymous wrote:I have been having a meltdown since he told me and I can’t sleep. Does anyone have any good marriage advice in addition to going to therapy ?
Anonymous wrote:I'm sorry.
Divorce isn't so bad. Staying with someone who doesn't love you is worse