Anonymous wrote:Long shot on this ask but has anyone gotten an offer for 17U ? Lower team ok.
Are those teams mostly recruits and DD has wasted time attending tryouts?
Don't think of tryouts as a "waste of time" even if your DC has no chance to make a team. At minimum, it's time away from devices. Your DC will at least get workout time in a gym (hard to find open gyms these days) and get good feedback about where she or he stacks up against competition. And you can network with other parents to potentially get good info on other teams or tryouts. I always try to seek out parents of current team members to glean info.
Recently, I brought my DS to a tryout mainly for a workout, even though I knew the development-level team was recruiting newer players. He complained it was a waste of time, but I met up with a parent coach who gave me good info on other teams looking for DS's skill set and he invited us to workout with his son and friends in a gym he rents.
Exception -- tryouts can be a waste of time if you skip another tryout at same time to bring your DC to a stretch team they likely won't make.