We are a family of 4 with 2 kids ages 13 and 15. We have been up and down CA and NM/ID/MT/WY but never OR/WA.
Seeking recs for a family resort more on lux side but still affordable for mere mortals

I'm specifically seeking a resort v. VRBO because I want easy

I'm late to planning summer for us and hoping for a resort that offers some activities. If anyone has suggestions for incorporating towns around the Bend area, would so appreciate as I don't know my way around there at all..
What airport best to fly into? How long drive to Bend area from there? Activities/best time to go?
I saw Headlands Coastal Lodge and The Ocean Lodge - any other recs would be great! Looking at either 5-8 days ideally either late June/early July or Aug. THANK YOU!!
Seeking -
- scenery - drives/walk along coast or beach
- rafting - we love rafting!!!
- sand board/kayak/pool