Agree with others. Choose the high school for academics, not athletics. I had sons play soccer at DJO and one of the top ranked FCPS high schools. Both played collegiate soccer with their HS soccer, for the most part, considered negligible versus what they did with their respective travel teams and their performance at ID camps.
DJO and YHS are great schools with the facilities at YHS arguably better.
One big difference is that teams share the one field at DJO, pushing soccer practices to the grass at Tuckahoe ES.
No lights at DJO either. (Thanks neighbors!)
That said, across the league, WCAA competition is very strong; even fierce at times, with the level of play and players superior to that within VHSL.
As noted, WCAA and independent high schools play in the fall. VHSL plays in the spring.