Anonymous wrote:We were sure our son was going to go to college in pull-ups! It went on until he was in like 9th grade. He might even have had an accident in 10th. Everyone told us he'd outgrew it, but it sure felt like he never would. We made a point of never shaming him and just making it a matter-of-fact thing, like, "OK, well, go wash your sheets." It was very stressful whenever we went on vacation, once he was too old for a pull-up.
If you have other kids, make sure they know it's off limits to tease him about it and that they never tell anyone outside of your family. I was very concerned that my older kid might blab to others or say something mean in a fight, and I made it clear there would be dire consequences if that happened.
My DS was in the beginning of 7th grade before it stopped. We had seen all the doctors and were assured nothing was wrong and he would outgrow. We did have pills he could take for sleepovers that suppressed the need to pee and kept him dry. One day it just was done and never happened again.