Anonymous wrote:What would you do in this situation? My H lives 2.5-4 hours away, depending on the traffic in our large city. He wants to pick up DD from school and drive her to his place, after having slept only 4 hours last night, worked all day and already driven 3 hours (half to his job, the other half to my house). I told him to sleep in my guest room, he doesn't want that. He threatens to contact a lawyer if I don't let her go with him tonight, calling me a bully and a narcissist.
I told him that he can make decisions about himself, but we decide jointly about our daughter.
I am very scared that they will get in an accident. I don't know what to do. DD is afraid and does not want to stand up to him, even though she agreed this morning that it would be smart for both of them to sleep in my house and drive tomorrow morning, when the drive would take only 2.5 hours instead of 4 on a Friday evening.
Hire a lawyer, go to court, get a custody and visitation order, after spending lots of money.
Otherwise sit down and STFU.