Anonymous wrote:This sounds like codependent parents who can’t bear being alone - your willingness to strip your kids of engagement with siblings because you two choose to divorce is kind of staggering.
Anonymous wrote:Just schedule a one-on-one evening or outing with each parent/kid once a month. Don't make it so complicated and unstable.
Anonymous wrote:Just schedule a one-on-one evening or outing with each parent/kid once a month. Don't make it so complicated and unstable.
Anonymous wrote:This is OP. I appreciate the honest if harsh feedback. We were seeing it as an opportunity for a lot of one on one time for each kid with each parent. They're very close in age and don't get a lot of individual time with the parents because we're all five together 24/7. Thought it would be nice for them to each have a special day a week where they're the center of attention with mom or dad and get to do their favorite things with them. 4 days a week they would all be together, then two days they'd be with one sibling.