Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 20:35     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Troll

You’re both single but you didn’t say that up front; you made it sound like some wildly inappropriate crush.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 18:47     Subject: Re:How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:Think about him doing gross stuff, like trimming his toenails and picking his nose.


Or voting for trump
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 18:36     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.


Thank you for this
I am single though is that worse?


Is he single?


Yes


So then what's the problem? Why would you not date?


Is it really that simple though?
I dont want to admit this
/op
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:44     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.


Thank you for this
I am single though is that worse?


Is he single?


Yes


So then what's the problem? Why would you not date?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:43     Subject: Re:How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Think about him doing gross stuff, like trimming his toenails and picking his nose.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:41     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Feelings will not lessen doing the above.
Do not think about person. Do not fantasize. Do not spend more time than absolutely necessary. This stuff can go on for years wasting your real life.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:40     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.


Thank you for this
I am single though is that worse?


Is he single?


Yes
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:38     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.


Thank you for this
I am single though is that worse?


Is he single?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:38     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.


This is good advice.

Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:38     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.


Thank you for this
I am single though is that worse?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:37     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Anonymous wrote:Are you female?


Yes
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:35     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Are you female?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:09     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
The way to overcome crushes is to enjoy the sensation of warm feelings you have. They will not last. Do not act on them in ways that are not allowed: touching, or being alone with him more than strictly necessary for your job. You are allowed to be happy when you see your crush, to enjoy spending time with them in public, and to look forward to seeing them the next day. It doesn't mean you don't love your own spouse and children, or want to leave, or anything of that nature - even if perhaps you fantasize sometimes of having a different life!

And then one day, feelings will lessen. That's all.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:05     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
Change jobs.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 17:01     Subject: How to get rid of crush? (Serious)
I have one on a coworker. His personality is unlike anything I’ve seen. He is so kind, warm and nice.

I am serious and not a troll. It is bothering me so much at this point. I just don’t want to care