Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 10:07     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Are they European?

Our European guests don’t understand central air or heat, why there are screens, etc. And always crack open windows when sleeping.

Where they live there are apparently less bugs, no screens and no AC so windows it is!
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 09:11     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Anonymous wrote:Weird that they are looking at you but not weird to have blinds

https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2024/01/uncovered-windows-curtains-wealthy-neighborhoods/677204/



The Atlantic is exhausting.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 07:49     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Maybe they cannot afford window treatments.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 07:45     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

You do get that their *windows* are closed, but their blinds/curtains are not, right? Misleading thread title.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 07:45     Subject: Re:Neighbors who never close their windows?

Imagine living in your own house that you pay for the way you want to live. Truly baffling.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 07:40     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Anonymous wrote:4th generation and we never bother to close our main level blinds. Our house is a bit up from the street. You can't see much..a person walking by occasionally. Everything seems so small with them down...and I guess we are lazy.


and thinking about it more, I have no idea if our neighbors close their blinds at night or not. Maybe they are closed all day. I just don't pay attention.
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 07:34     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

I don’t cover my windows except in bathroom and bedroom. I like seeing outside more than I care about people being able to see me eat dinner, talk to my kids, or gaze into my yard. 5th generation fwiw
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 07:25     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Dear DCUM,

I spent all evening staring at my neighbor's windows. Why do they keep looking at me?
Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 05:45     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

I’ll tell you what’s weird, the fact that you think this has anything to do with immigration.

Anonymous
Post 01/23/2025 05:23     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

4th generation and we never bother to close our main level blinds. Our house is a bit up from the street. You can't see much..a person walking by occasionally. Everything seems so small with them down...and I guess we are lazy.
Anonymous
Post 01/22/2025 23:46     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Anonymous wrote:What does this have to do with immigration exactly?


Yes, I also was wondering this too.

But yeah, it IS a little weird + not my own personal cup of tea 🫖 but to each his own I suppose.
Anonymous
Post 01/22/2025 21:58     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

What does this have to do with immigration exactly?
Anonymous
Post 01/22/2025 21:57     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Why would you think it has anything to do with your immigration status?

Anonymous
Post 01/22/2025 21:44     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

Anonymous
Post 01/22/2025 21:34     Subject: Neighbors who never close their windows?

So I am a second generation immigrant but My family who was first generation always used blinds or window coverings but we have neighbors who are first generation and they never cover their windows. At night you can clearly see them looking out the windows or what they are doing. So all day their windows are always open without covers. I don't think I have seen any other neighbors that are this way and the only reason why it's weird to me is because I can catch them looking out their window and feel their gaze. Weird or no?