Anonymous wrote:It's fine. My aunt is 10 years younger than her husband, and it's been a very happy marriage. At 86, he's still very spry - she's the one who had to get a double stent operation.
My husband is 18 years older than me. I'm the one with the auto-immune diseases and blood clotting issues. He's a doctor and takes good care of me.
Anonymous wrote:My 37 year old boss is marrying a 23 year old at a courthouse today. I can’t tell anyone. He called out (never does). It's killing me.
A 32 year old on our team is in love with him and will flip when she finds out. All of these ppl have a masters or PhD.
Sorry to hijack the thread but I've been dying and it seemed loosely relevant.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why is this a problem? Do you envision her to be a teenager and he is an adult? I mean, 35 year olds are still in an extended adolescence too in this generation- with exceptions of course, but it looks like adulting doesn't even start till 40s now.
But assuming they are both fairly mature- where is ths problem?
I just have always thought an agegap of 1 decade is a bit too much /OP
Anonymous wrote:Why is this a problem? Do you envision her to be a teenager and he is an adult? I mean, 35 year olds are still in an extended adolescence too in this generation- with exceptions of course, but it looks like adulting doesn't even start till 40s now.
But assuming they are both fairly mature- where is ths problem?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As long as he’s not married, what’s the problem?
Different life stages makes it inappropriate right? /OP
Anonymous wrote:As long as he’s not married, what’s the problem?