Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:29     Subject: Re:Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We made up the guest room and let them decide ( first visit dd stayed in her own room; 2nd, 3rd and 4th she stayed in guest room with bf). By the time we met DD’s bf they had done a 100 mile backpacking trip together and also traveled all over Europe. Requiring them to be in separate rooms would have been ( IMO) kinda disrespectful to the connection they had built with each other. They’re not together anymore but no regrets.


That was a situationship, not a connection if they aren't together or friends anymore.


or it was a relationship that didn't work out.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:28     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
Anonymous wrote:My parents did separate rooms until we were living together. Then one room.


+1 I expect that I will follow this "rule" as well with my own kids.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:08     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
Separate rooms while I am paying tuition. My house is not their love nest. If they are sneaking into rooms, the bf/gf will not be invited again.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:07     Subject: Re:Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
Anonymous wrote:We made up the guest room and let them decide ( first visit dd stayed in her own room; 2nd, 3rd and 4th she stayed in guest room with bf). By the time we met DD’s bf they had done a 100 mile backpacking trip together and also traveled all over Europe. Requiring them to be in separate rooms would have been ( IMO) kinda disrespectful to the connection they had built with each other. They’re not together anymore but no regrets.


That was a situationship, not a connection if they aren't together or friends anymore.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:07     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
The girlfriend isn’t staying. If she has no where to go, as in international student- hotel.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:06     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
Anonymous wrote:Separate bedrooms are just a matter of principle nothing more. By the way, how come people with more kids and less bedrooms handle it?


What principal?
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:05     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
Separate bedrooms are just a matter of principle nothing more. By the way, how come people with more kids and less bedrooms handle it?
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 08:02     Subject: Re:Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
We made up the guest room and let them decide ( first visit dd stayed in her own room; 2nd, 3rd and 4th she stayed in guest room with bf). By the time we met DD’s bf they had done a 100 mile backpacking trip together and also traveled all over Europe. Requiring them to be in separate rooms would have been ( IMO) kinda disrespectful to the connection they had built with each other. They’re not together anymore but no regrets.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 07:46     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
No, but I know he sneaks into DD’s room in the middle of the night. Aged 21.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 07:44     Subject: Re:Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
If they are in a committed relationship same room.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 07:04     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
My parents did separate rooms until we were living together. Then one room.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 06:44     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
Separate room. Unless they r planing to conceive.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 06:24     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
We have a boy and a girl, and our home, our rules:

No ring, separate rooms.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 06:14     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
First two years, separate rooms. Juniors and up, same.
Anonymous
Post 01/07/2025 05:52     Subject: Parents, do you allow your college age boy live in the same bedroom with his girlfriend in your house?
I mean, when your college aged boy and his girl friend are back home from the winter break, do you prepare one bedroom or separated two bedrooms for them?