Anonymous wrote:I spent a lot of money on speech therapy solely because my kid wasn’t drinking from a cup at the time I thought she needed to. Total waste of money and time. Everyone learns to drink from a cup. Put it at the bottom of the list of things to worry about.
I’m sorry, pp. That makes me sad for you. I can relate because we wasted a lot of money and time and worry on similar things that got easier in time. My best advice to first time parents is to realize that all baby resources from blogs to books written by experts are written for the easiest, most average kids. SO much of the advice and milestones is wrong or may not apply. Kids must be off bottles by 1! They must eat solid foods of all textures and sizes by 10 months, no purées otherwise you need feeding therapy! They must sleep through the night by 6 months or they are autistic/have sleep apnea/you’re a bad parent! It’s all so rigid and unrealistic and sets parents up for failure.