Anonymous wrote:We used to live in SF and have spent a lot of time in all areas. It's your lucky day because my motivation at work is about 0:
Big Sur is about an hour south of Carmel. Go and stay at the Post Ranch or Ventana. Be ready to spend a lot of $$$
You do not need to fly to Sonoma or Napa. I don't even think you can from Monterey/Carmel unless you have a private plane. With traffic (and there is traffic) it will take you about 4ish hours from Carmel to either spot.
Definitely need to know your budget and preference on wine:
Sonoma/Healdsburg (more chill)
Wines: more pinots, lighter whites
High Budget: Montage, Farmhouse Inn (a little away from dt Healdsburg, but very lovely),
Low(er) Budget: any of the Piazza hotels- Hotel Healdburg, H2, etc.
Boutique hotels that are supposed to be really nice: Madrona (have brunch there), Single Thread (the restaurant!!), Hotel Les Mar (we stayed for a night-very cute and European feel).
Napa (busier, but popular for a reason)
Wines: chards and cabs
High Budget: Auberge (adults only-- highly recommend), Solage, Meadowood (can have a lot of kids), Bardossono
Low(er) Budget: Napa is overall pricey, but there are a few properties in dt Napa that are decent including the Westin (can have a lot of kids).
Thank you so much! Sorry I should have been clear about flying, I meant that we have some flexibility with flights. We can fly into San Jose and out of SF or whatever makes the most sense.