Currently debating if I should push for couples counseling to get DH some mental healthcare.

My spouse has requested it a few times over our 25 year marriage, and I've always obliged and never found it helpful. But spouse seems to like it, so I comply

In a similar boat. He does not want any therapy but his anger is a huge issue.

I wonder how much of couples counseling is really just a way to get one half of the partnership the mental health support they need?

Going through this now - he would never hear it if I raised the concern about depression, but maybe he'll listen to someone else?

Gotta do what it takes, right?