Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:43
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Why not adopt? y friend was adopted at 2.5 yo by her single, then 54 yo mother. She had an excellent upbringing and, of course, is grateful she was spared growing up in an orphans home/ foster homes.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:42
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Anonymous wrote:Is it a young 50 or an old 50?
Youngish 50
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:41
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Anonymous wrote:Yes, if you can afford to have a child, and if you and your partner both really want a child (this would be the deciding factor for me if I could easily afford to have a child), then go for it! We didn’t have local family help, although I admit that I was in my 30s when I had my kids. If you have the desire and will give the kid tons of love, and are ready for the change in your lifestyle, then best wishes!
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:40
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Is it a young 50 or an old 50?
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:38
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Yes, if you can afford to have a child, and if you and your partner both really want a child (this would be the deciding factor for me if I could easily afford to have a child), then go for it! We didn’t have local family help, although I admit that I was in my 30s when I had my kids. If you have the desire and will give the kid tons of love, and are ready for the change in your lifestyle, then best wishes!
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:34
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Anonymous wrote:Yes. If you have a lot of money, you can always buy the support you need.
Yes, there will be no shortage of money for all sorts of care.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:33
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Anonymous wrote:Hell no.
Only someone who hadn't had kids would think this was a remotely good idea.
You're too old. Get over it. Having a baby at that age is pure narcissism.
Having a kid at any age is narcissism. People have strong desires to have children. I can’t blame them
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:33
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Yes.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:32
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
^ not
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:32
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Partner is 43.
Assume plenty of money on both sides to pay for care- both for the child and for adults. Big ideal obviously but there is no shortage of money
Assume plenty of money on both sides to pay for care- both for the child and for adults. Big ideal obviously but there is no shortage of money
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:30
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
If there is a partner, how old?
My worry would be that I would need help starting when kid is 20. That won’t work.
My worry would be that I would need help starting when kid is 20. That won’t work.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:28
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Hell no.
Only someone who hadn't had kids would think this was a remotely good idea.
You're too old. Get over it. Having a baby at that age is pure narcissism.
Only someone who hadn't had kids would think this was a remotely good idea.
You're too old. Get over it. Having a baby at that age is pure narcissism.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:27
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Yes. If you have a lot of money, you can always buy the support you need.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:22
Subject: Re:Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
Yes! If I had no kids yet, I would do it, asap.
Anonymous
12/01/2024 09:17
Subject: Would you have a first baby at age 50 or 51? Assume a surrogate and $ but not a lot of
local family support.