I think it's a great idea. You don't want too much of their identity and self-worth tied up in one sport. This is especially true if the niche sport is something like figure skating, where you'll see big changes over the next few years in a 13-year. Many lose their triples when they hit puberty and have to get them back once they are used to their new body, and it doesn't always work.

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Anonymous wrote:secondar sport is soccer. Teen is very highly ranked nationally in an individual niche sport.

What is up with parents not disclosing such information? Why the secrecy?

Because it’s a sport that maybe 3 people play

Yes, the poor kid shouldn’t be punished by being good at their primary sport. Idk how this is even a real question. If you don’t alllow it I’d fully expect kid to quit primary sport.

Anonymous wrote:secondar sport is soccer. Teen is very highly ranked nationally in an individual niche sport.

What is up with parents not disclosing such information? Why the secrecy?

Anonymous wrote:I let my kids have a childhood, and to me that includes exploring a variety of interests. Yes, I would allow this.

This, of course I'd let them do the second sport. Because my goal is raising a healthy, happy human, not a nationally ranked athlete.

I’m glad I’m not OP’s kid.

Anonymous wrote:secondar sport is soccer. Teen is very highly ranked nationally in an individual niche sport.

Is this like something ridiculous like fencing? Then yes he or she can do it

Of course! Teenagers are supposed to have fun! They’re supposed to try new things! Why would you even think of saying no? That’s absurd.

I let my kids have a childhood, and to me that includes exploring a variety of interests. Yes, I would allow this.

If they want to do it on the weekend with friends very casually why not

secondar sport is soccer. Teen is very highly ranked nationally in an individual niche sport.

How injury prone is the second sport?

Fun/school community connection has a LOT of value.

100% let them play. Sports is the one area where kids get to have the most autonomy. Let them make that choice.

What sport and how highly ranked

My 13 year old is nationally ranked in an individual sport but also likes to play a second sport for fun at their school. The school does not mandate this. Would you let them play the secondary sport and risk an injury which can affect their main sport? I understand the benefits of cross training but does the opportunity cost make any sense here?