Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 19:08     Subject: Re:When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Anonymous wrote:My son’s live-in GF of eight yrs recently found out he cheated on her and broke up w/him.

We were very close but for conflict of interest reasons I told her that I would completely understand if she unfriended/unfollowed me on social media which she did.


She doesn't need your permission weirdo.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 19:00     Subject: Re:When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

My son’s live-in GF of eight yrs recently found out he cheated on her and broke up w/him.

We were very close but for conflict of interest reasons I told her that I would completely understand if she unfriended/unfollowed me on social media which she did.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 18:12     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

It’s your page. Do whatever you want.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 18:11     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Anonymous wrote:I had an extended family member who kept saying really offensive things so I unfriended him. FWIW, this wasn't political polarization or anything. It was just casually mean and offensive. The next time I saw him in real life he went crazy on me yelling etc., explaining that I should have muted him instead of unfriending him. I was surprised he had even noticed. I had actually forgotten by that point. People are nuts, but his response was very validating for me. I unfollow people constantly now.


How did he know you unfriended him? It’s not like you get notified when someone does. Dude has issues.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 18:02     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

It is so weird that some people seem to think that would the invention of social media it's now "impolite" to have normal boundaries.

I can like someone and not want to get updates about their kitchen reno. It's fine.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 09:58     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

I had an extended family member who kept saying really offensive things so I unfriended him. FWIW, this wasn't political polarization or anything. It was just casually mean and offensive. The next time I saw him in real life he went crazy on me yelling etc., explaining that I should have muted him instead of unfriending him. I was surprised he had even noticed. I had actually forgotten by that point. People are nuts, but his response was very validating for me. I unfollow people constantly now.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 09:30     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

I unfriendly most of my extended family last week, including my mother. Their posts were becoming more and more vile. I don't need to see that.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 09:30     Subject: Re:When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Never!! How rude *gasp*. You have to follow them until you die. Were you raised in a barn?
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 08:42     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

This is the embodiment of where we are in 2024 in America.
Newsflash—you don’t need permission to do anything you want to do, as long as you are not physically harming another person.
Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness are all within your grasp as unalienable rights given to you by God. So say the founders of this great nation.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 08:38     Subject: Re:When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

It is never rude.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 08:24     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Whenever you want. Social media is your own fiefdom.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 08:20     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Are you really asking this? When is it ever acceptable? When and if? Seriously some of you just leave me scratching my head.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 08:19     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Newer to instagram only to showcase very specific art projects. My only followers are fellow creators and I switched to a private setting. Early on, my profile was open to everyone and it soon filled with weirdos and random acquaintances. A creepy DM changed my mind.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 08:14     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Anytime you want. Who cares about social media anymore? Only people over 60 are on it.
Anonymous
Post 10/28/2024 08:13     Subject: When, if ever, is it acceptable to unfriend/unfollow people?

Is it considered rude after 5+ years of not talking to each other or seeing each other, or just fine?