Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:59     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Since birth? They've always been around gay couples who are family members and friends.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:59     Subject: Re:At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Another family at our daycare was a same sex parent family. My DD was probably 2-3 when she came home telling me her friend had two Moms and no Dad. We said yep, some families have two Moms, two Dads, one Mom/one Dad and some families only have one parent - no big deal. By PK they were talking about different families in school.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:56     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Anonymous wrote:When did you teach them about opposite sex relationships? Then.


This, "are we having a playdate with 1 daddy henry or 2 daddy henry" because we knew 2 different henrys.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:55     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Anonymous wrote:When did you teach them about opposite sex relationships? Then.


+1

“You can marry whoever you love. Some girls marry boys, and some girls marry girls.”


Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:50     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Anonymous wrote:Trying to gauge what the norm is if/when this is taught in a school setting. And if you are teaching it at home, then what’s the appropriate age?


Any it’s called being a great parent

Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:49     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Anonymous wrote:When did you teach them about opposite sex relationships? Then.


Exactly this. 3s preschool at our Catholic preschool-8th grade school. Everyone talks about their families and read books about families of all kinds. It’s not a big deal if even our second-rate Catholic school can handle this conversation.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:44     Subject: Re:At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Like age 2? No reason for it to be some big taboo subject. Our dentist is gay. We have relatives who are gay. It's a very simple concept - you love whoever you love.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:44     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

When did you teach them about opposite sex relationships? Then.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:35     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

I wasn't avoiding the topic but discussed it explicitly in 3's pre-k when another student had two moms. nbd.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:35     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

There were a lot of same-sex parents at school and church, including one of my kid’s best friend’s moms, so I don’t think we ever “taught” it, per se. It was just normal. No big deal.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:33     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

There are same sex families in the school, my kids have always known that so and so has 2 dads or 2 moms.
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:32     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

I don't think it is explicitly taught in school. We have talked about it since toddlerhood. They have friends with 2 moms or 2 dads. We've read books about all types of families since they were born. This should just be part of life
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:29     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

OP what do you mean "same sex relationships"? My kid started learning about these in preschool when they discussed what families are. Is that what you mean?
Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:29     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children


DS has known about same sex relationships for as long as he's known about what relationships and families are. I don't remember what age that was but 3ish maybe? I know in his preschool some of their books about families had same sex families, single parent families, etc and I had no issues with that.

Anonymous
Post 10/23/2024 11:25     Subject: At School, When Do You Think Is the Appropriate Age to Discuss Same Sex Relationships With Children

Trying to gauge what the norm is if/when this is taught in a school setting. And if you are teaching it at home, then what’s the appropriate age?