Sorry, OP again. In my haste, I forgot to include pertinent details.
There Is No Ethan: How Three Women Caught America's Biggest Catfish by Anna Akbari.
From Amazon: In 2011, three successful and highly educated women fell head over heels for the brilliant and charming Ethan Schuman. Unbeknownst to the others, each exchanged countless messages with Ethan, staying up late into the evenings to deepen their connections with this fascinating man. His detailed excuses about broken webcams and complicated international calling plans seemed believable, as did last minute trip cancellations. After all, why would he lie?