Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:25
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Hugs op. Breakups are never easy.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:23
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Anonymous wrote:What is your last name?
Woodcock
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:23
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
He sounds extremely insecure.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:22
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Oh sweetie, you are 25. This situation will never have a happy ending. Cut him loose. This doesn’t make anyone a bad person, just different.
Oh look, it's the "sweetie" poster. Every time I read "sweetie" I ignore whatever is said.
Are you OP?
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:21
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Anonymous wrote:Oh sweetie, you are 25. This situation will never have a happy ending. Cut him loose. This doesn’t make anyone a bad person, just different.
Oh look, it's the "sweetie" poster. Every time I read "sweetie" I ignore whatever is said.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:19
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
People only get crazier as they age. So this is only get worst.
What he is doing is a form of abuse. Move on now and be thankful.
What he is doing is a form of abuse. Move on now and be thankful.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:12
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Ditch him ASAP. He's not worth a second of your valuable time.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:11
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
What is your last name?
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:05
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
You shouldn't be having trials and tribulations with the person you are in a serious relationship with. Wait until you meet the right guy; it will seem natural and easy.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:04
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Red flag! Abort mission!
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:04
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Anonymous wrote:He doesn't like you much. The reasons don't matter. Break up.
This is exactly it. Move on and don't give him another thought.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 17:02
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
He doesn't like you much. The reasons don't matter. Break up.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 16:56
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
It’s tough times, and hard to understand what other people go through. Sounds like you are bearing the brunt of a larger issue, it is likely not even about you personally. People are rolling up their welcome mats all over the place and feeling threatened and protective. (Hurricane victims won’t even let FEMA workers help them apply for aid, and that is just one tiny example.)
No advice. I’m sorry.
No advice. I’m sorry.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 16:52
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Oh sweetie, you are 25. This situation will never have a happy ending. Cut him loose. This doesn’t make anyone a bad person, just different.
Anonymous
10/15/2024 16:47
Subject: Jewish boyfriend says I hate him
Well two years, age 25, in love, lots of great memories, trips, trials and tribulations. I said I’d convert, went on a long business trip and have some of the craziest emails ever from him.
He says we are great but he can’t date a non Jew. He accuses me of not being supportive enough when he or his family suffer antisemitism. Not sure where that’s coming from, he tells some stories from once in awhile, I listen and agree. He tells me I must have “milked antisemitism from my upbringing but don’t realize it.” He said his father says my last name was nasty to Jews back in Poland.
He’s really going out with a bang and rewriting the narrative.
Is this a defense mechanism to make me give up or dislike him? Before I thought this was going to work out or be some tragic Romeo& Juliet breakup. He’s not an a-hole at all but seems to be trying that angle.
I guess it’s working because now I don’t want to raise children with the same hate and assumptions that he has about others.
He says we are great but he can’t date a non Jew. He accuses me of not being supportive enough when he or his family suffer antisemitism. Not sure where that’s coming from, he tells some stories from once in awhile, I listen and agree. He tells me I must have “milked antisemitism from my upbringing but don’t realize it.” He said his father says my last name was nasty to Jews back in Poland.
He’s really going out with a bang and rewriting the narrative.
Is this a defense mechanism to make me give up or dislike him? Before I thought this was going to work out or be some tragic Romeo& Juliet breakup. He’s not an a-hole at all but seems to be trying that angle.
I guess it’s working because now I don’t want to raise children with the same hate and assumptions that he has about others.