If men are hot it’s ok. If not no matter the age it’s creepy.

Anonymous wrote:In my early 40s I seem to exclusively attract men 55-60+. Rarely men my own age even though I am often mistaken for being in my 30s.

Why do all women in their 40s say that lol?

Ageist.

Often. They think I'm cute and that they have no chance, so it lowers their inhibitions. It's a nice dynamic, because it provides a moment of fun to both parties, and it's guaranteed to go nowhere.

I hardly ever get a compliment from men of my age and socio-economic background. They don't dare.

In my early 40s I seem to exclusively attract men 55-60+. Rarely men my own age even though I am often mistaken for being in my 30s.

Anonymous wrote:I’m 40 and get hit on by older men all the time. I’ve decided it’s because I’m older than their daughters yet younger than their ex-wives.

You are correct!

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Anonymous wrote:I’m 40 and get hit on by older men all the time. I’ve decided it’s because I’m older than their daughters yet younger than their ex-wives.

I'm 41 and divorced and this weekend I was at a wedding and ran into the widowed father of an old friend of mine. He's about 63 and he looks fantastic and I felt like hitting on him! My friend was also at the wedding so I behaved.

When I was in HS I had a crush on a friends dad. He still looks great 20+ years later.

Both men and women can age well if they care of themselves, but most don't. And alcohol is a big culprit more than lack of physical activity. So if you hey hit on from an ATTRACTIVE older man that's a compliment.

I am 47 and I am divorced but not dating. I take really good care of myself and I have an engaging personality . I didn't know there were so many single (divorced or never married) women. I do flirt with them sometimes but I just stop there. I have teenage twins 14 years old extremely difficult to handle. They are going through their phase and I have my hand full. But maybe once they get out of that phase I'll be mentally ready to devote sometime to someone.

Anonymous wrote:I’m 40 and get hit on by older men all the time. I’ve decided it’s because I’m older than their daughters yet younger than their ex-wives.

I'm 41 and divorced and this weekend I was at a wedding and ran into the widowed father of an old friend of mine. He's about 63 and he looks fantastic and I felt like hitting on him! My friend was also at the wedding so I behaved.

I got so much attention from ages 30-35 from older men. I didn't feel like they were creeps, but they were single for a reason.
Now the younger guys to notice me at 43+.

I’m 40 and get hit on by older men all the time. I’ve decided it’s because I’m older than their daughters yet younger than their ex-wives.

I have a thing for older men.
Love attention from them!

If you are 25-35, attractive, married or single and travel a lot on business the 50+ guys can be very annoying and creepy. I never go to a hotel bar or restaurant alone because that is where they hang out.

No, ideally the female is younger and the man older and wealthy

And getting compliments,
Is it nice or creepy ?
Let say 15-20 years older than you and you are older than 25.