Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:58     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

No. That's not okay---don't tolerate it.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:56     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

Yes. But more frequently, whenever I ask for his help, he reflexively adopts an irritated, demeaning tone - despite my pointing it out. I don't think he can help himself. He's not patient, and he can't adapt to someone else's communication style. From my point of view, it's incredibly disrespectful.

One of the many reasons I'm leaving him.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:52     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

no!
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:50     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

Absolutely not.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:48     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

No, more like silent treatment. He was an Aspie.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:46     Subject: Re:Does your husband yell at you?

Either of us sometimes yells to be heard over music or from a distance, but even then there's usually a "you should have just come closer instead of yelling" exchange.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:46     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

No, never. That's abuse (and obviously calling out from the other side of the house to ask if you've seen their blue shirt doesn't count as yelling...)
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:41     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

No.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:30     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

No not really.

Some of the dh’s on this board seem awful. Yelling, gaslighting. Not doing anything at home. So sad
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:28     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

Not really. Maybe if we are in a bad fight. So maybe 2 times a year, if that? I probably yell at him about twice that.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:18     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

If I am upstairs, sure
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:17     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

No, but he can get generally louder when excited or agitated about things that are good or bad.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:09     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

No, my husband has literally never yelled at me. It’s not okay, OP.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:07     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?

I don’t know how common it is, but it’s unacceptable.
Anonymous
Post 10/15/2024 07:06     Subject: Does your husband yell at you?


My husband occasionally yells at me. How common is this?