Anonymous wrote:How long have you been married. That’s very sweet actually. I’m assuming he meant it in a nice way.

16 years. We have sex all the time. He assumes I am trying to be sexy and turn him on but I am not. I am just being myself.

Anonymous wrote:It’s like a vibe you give off. There nothing to explain. He thinks of sex when he sees or interacts with you. It’s great.

I’ve been told this by every man I’ve been with. Keep doing whatever you’re doing.

+1, me too. OP, you need to be more self-aware so you can be even better at it if you choose to care. If you choose to be clueless, keep on keeping on.

Blatant humble brag, but I approve

Chemistry? Sexual tension? Sensuality?


I am not sure if you are upset he finds you sexy or what your question is. Does he find you playing dumb sexy?

Anonymous wrote:OP, is English your first language? Because I'm wondering how you don't understand.

It's probably performance art.

"Tell me how special I am, beeeeeecause I juuust don't understaaaaand what it meeeeaaans!"

I've felt this way about a few different men I've known, one I was in a relationship with for a few years. They could just walk in the room and I'd get aroused. What's not to get?

Anonymous wrote:It’s like a vibe you give off. There nothing to explain. He thinks of sex when he sees or interacts with you. It’s great.

I’ve been told this by every man I’ve been with. Keep doing whatever you’re doing.

OP, is English your first language? Because I'm wondering how you don't understand.

Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth

It’s like a vibe you give off. There nothing to explain. He thinks of sex when he sees or interacts with you. It’s great.

I’ve been told this by every man I’ve been with. Keep doing whatever you’re doing.

Why don’t you ask him what he meant? We can’t see you.

How long have you been married. That’s very sweet actually. I’m assuming he meant it in a nice way.

With the caveat that everyone likes different things, and that therefore some people might not find you sexy... it probably has something to do with your movements. Some people have more dynamic grace than others. It's nice your husband can both appreciate it AND verbalize it!

Does this make sense to you? He says everything about how I interact with him and the world is sexy. The way I look the way I talk the way I am. I don’t understand. Please explain?