Men are pretty simple and most only require TTF

Touch me- Hug me for no reason, touch my bicep and bite your lip, grope me when no one’s looking; you did it years ago and the same tricks still work on us.

Tell me- no matter how effective we are on the outside world it means nothing if you don’t appreciate us. A single sentence atta boy every 10 or 15 days is more than enough to inspire us to do better.

F$&k me- It’s just you and me, if you don’t want me there’s nowhere else to get that same feeling of acceptance and love. If you’re enthusiastic when we ask and you initiate every now and then with a text or a phone call during the workday then we feel loved and wanted and those times you turn us down won’t matter for a second because we don’t doubt your want for us.

This is pretty much everything you need to keep a man happy indefinitely.
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No. It is fair to say women express this need more than men. Both, both sexes share the need to be wanted. Men have been trained to not express it.

As a former bouncer I have witnessed thousands of couples of interactions. And the women who slipped their numbers to guys while their bfs were in a bathroom or busy elsewhere etc caught the attention of men who sensed they weren't getting the attention they "deserve".

Anonymous wrote:Women and men really aren’t that different. There is a wide variation in personalities in both genders. Some men and some women are far more emotionally needy than others. Both cheat for a host of reasons.

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Women and men really aren’t that different. There is a wide variation in personalities in both genders. Some men and some women are far more emotionally needy than others. Both cheat for a host of reasons.

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Anonymous wrote:Women need to feel you won’t leave or cheat and that you will be a good dad/support and not be a drag financially.

Men need to feel wanted which is why most affairs happen… so pathetic. They like the feeling but don’t leave for it.

Women cheat because you’re not one of the things mentioned and they are looking for an exit strategy.

Real talk

lol or the cheat themselves

Lots of histrionic personality disorders that need intense external validation constantly

Yes. If you show us you want us first, we reciprocate. If we feel secure and desired, we will make you feel desired. In order for us to desire sex, we need to feel the heat of your desire first. Sorry.

Anonymous wrote:Women need to feel you won’t leave or cheat and that you will be a good dad/support and not be a drag financially.

Men need to feel wanted which is why most affairs happen… so pathetic. They like the feeling but don’t leave for it.

Women cheat because you’re not one of the things mentioned and they are looking for an exit strategy.

Real talk

Women need to feel you won’t leave or cheat and that you will be a good dad/support and not be a drag financially.

Men need to feel wanted which is why most affairs happen… so pathetic. They like the feeling but don’t leave for it.

Women cheat because you’re not one of the things mentioned and they are looking for an exit strategy.

You are asking this question on a female dominated forum lol good luck 🤣

Women are emotional creature. They are very good at reading body language and facial expressions.

Women absolutely not only want to feel wanted but they need to. Also let's us not forget that we impose higher beauty standards on women than men. When women ask whether they look fat in a certain dress or if you fail to compliment them on the.way they looking in their dress or if you are ignoring them while they are genuinely trying to connect all of this is in my opinion affect women more than men.

There are internet memes about how a man holds onto the smallest compliment about his appearance to comfort and validate him for years.

You say this when even so much as a "hello" and a smile is taken by most men as flirting?

Nah, bruh. Most men are DESPERATE to feel wanted, or even just seen! Women like these things too, but we validate each other and ourselves far more and far better than men.

Im a woman and i think it goes both ways

Is it fair to say that women need to be felt wanted more than men?

I recently broke up with my girlfriend and that's the one issue she said and she was crying while saying it..she told me she didn't feel wanted by me.