Anonymous
Post 09/24/2024 00:09     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Anonymous wrote:I'm going on 3 years without any, after several years of barely any. I'm about 90% ready to hire an escort.


Same! I’m a woman. It sucks.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 23:54     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Hell, its been so long since I’ve had sex, I sometimes go running in flip flops just to remember what it sounds like.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 23:39     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
I went for 7 years in my 30s without. Woman here. I got divorced. Had some great sex the last 4 years. But now I feel done with men because they all only want that. Toys work.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 22:24     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
I stayed 10 years sexless and eventually found out my ex was a closeted gay man. It was for the best because otherwise Id probably have an sti/std. In some ways it was good I stayed that long. In others I wish I had left earlier. Mostly I wish I didn't spend all that time wondering why I was in this situation. It's not you, it's him. Figure out what you want to do and then go after it and stop expecting him to change.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 22:19     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Anonymous wrote:It's a shame because of finances people are stuck in sexless marriages. Kind of depressing.


Agreed. But rise like a phoenix from the ashes, that's how anyone survives anything.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 22:12     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
It's a shame because of finances people are stuck in sexless marriages. Kind of depressing.

If I were in a sexless marriage I would have divorced my wife. I rather pay her alimony and send her child support split everything 50% and start my life over than be stuck without sex.

If you are a guy how can you go long without hearing that noise when you are f**g and your wife is super wet lol
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 22:04     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like being the turn on is a primary turn on for you (this is common for women). Take some time to explore your sexuality on your own, maybe with some erotic fiction.

How will this help?

Men unfortunately don't understand they have to fake it if they can't actually desire their wife. If a woman doesn't feel desired, she will not feel desire. That's true the majority of the time. So your lame initiations make your wife want to smother you in your sleep and f her coworker.


she might find alternate erotic pathways that can be safely explored without imploding her marriage, even if feeling desired remains primary. that is what the suggestion was. and nothing wrong with owning the desire generated by the IHOP guy in an empowered way but she can give herself the Os.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 22:04     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
I'm going on 3 years without any, after several years of barely any. I'm about 90% ready to hire an escort.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 21:52     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like being the turn on is a primary turn on for you (this is common for women). Take some time to explore your sexuality on your own, maybe with some erotic fiction.

How will this help?

Men unfortunately don't understand they have to fake it if they can't actually desire their wife. If a woman doesn't feel desired, she will not feel desire. That's true the majority of the time. So your lame initiations make your wife want to smother you in your sleep and f her coworker.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 21:50     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
We're going on 3 months because our relationship has hit some kind of awful roadblock. I wish it were just logistics from an exhausting job.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 21:47     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
I beat off a lot
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 21:47     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Affair
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 21:32     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Sounds like being the turn on is a primary turn on for you (this is common for women). Take some time to explore your sexuality on your own, maybe with some erotic fiction.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 21:24     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
Anonymous wrote:H took a new job a few months back that is extremely demanding with long hours and a lot of physical work. He still helps out at home a TON, but he's too exhausted for sex anymore. He's usually asleep before the kids are and I'm lucky if it's once a month.

I'm going bonkers. The other day I took the kids to IHOP while he slept in and eye-f***ed the hell out of an adorable college guy working there. Seriously thought about slipping him my number and giving him the time of his life.

How do you deal? I don't think I can last 3 more months like this, let alone another 20 years.


Go back to IHOP and ask for extra crème on whatever you order.
Anonymous
Post 09/23/2024 21:10     Subject: People in sexless marriages....how do you deal?
H took a new job a few months back that is extremely demanding with long hours and a lot of physical work. He still helps out at home a TON, but he's too exhausted for sex anymore. He's usually asleep before the kids are and I'm lucky if it's once a month.

I'm going bonkers. The other day I took the kids to IHOP while he slept in and eye-f***ed the hell out of an adorable college guy working there. Seriously thought about slipping him my number and giving him the time of his life.

How do you deal? I don't think I can last 3 more months like this, let alone another 20 years.