Anonymous
09/18/2024 19:38
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Anonymous wrote:This seems more common of a psychological thing for women than men. Men are less prone to regret and what ifs. If they married you, they are either content or if they are dissatisfied with the relationship, they may be thinking about affair or divorce, but they don’t daydream about some ex years ago.
100%
Anonymous
09/18/2024 19:37
Subject: Re:Men who still think about the one who got away
OP- he’s not thinking of you. Move on. Put away the rose colored glasses.
Anonymous
09/18/2024 19:36
Subject: Re:Men who still think about the one who got away
Most men have zero recall. And yeah some AP they banged a decade ago they certainly can’t even remember amongst the others. lol
Anonymous
09/18/2024 19:27
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Anonymous wrote:Men don't think about "the one that got away." That's woman thinking.
That’s simply not true. I think about my college girlfriend from 20 years ago. The problem is that I tend to think about the good times and have to proactively remind myself of the reasons why we were ultimately incompatible.
Anonymous
09/18/2024 19:25
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Anonymous wrote:This seems more common of a psychological thing for women than men. Men are less prone to regret and what ifs. If they married you, they are either content or if they are dissatisfied with the relationship, they may be thinking about affair or divorce, but they don’t daydream about some ex years ago.
+ ha
So true. I remember every single one of my husband’s best friend’s many ex-gfs and details and every one he had before me. 25 years later they can’t remember almost any of them. I will bring something up and sometimes they still don’t remember.
Anonymous
09/18/2024 19:04
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
This seems more common of a psychological thing for women than men. Men are less prone to regret and what ifs. If they married you, they are either content or if they are dissatisfied with the relationship, they may be thinking about affair or divorce, but they don’t daydream about some ex years ago.
Anonymous
09/18/2024 09:52
Subject: Re:Men who still think about the one who got away
My husband is far more successful and has aged incredibly well that I never give a thought about my exes. I’m glad I got away! I turned down two proposals and the third time was a charm!
Anonymous
09/18/2024 06:35
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
What a weird and boring thread.
Anonymous
09/18/2024 01:29
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Anonymous wrote:Tell me your fantasies (keep it PG) and feelings and regrets.
I am curious what men think about their former flames. I rekindled a romance with mine but broke things off and stopped contact once I realized he wanted an AP. I’ll always love him on some level but don’t want to speak again, even though he reached out. I understand now to “leave the past, in the past.”
He reached out because he knew it'd be easy. Finding somebody new and starting from step 1 requires a higher level effort. Boomeranging back to an old flame lets you take advantage of a shared history and pickup where you left off.
CosmicFlower
09/18/2024 01:23
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Anonymous wrote:Men don't think about "the one that got away." That's woman thinking.
My hubby actually brought up his first love once. Surprised me, to be honest. He's usually pretty tight-lipped about that kinda stuff. It wasn't a big deal or anything - just a passing thought he shared.
Anonymous
09/17/2024 23:16
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Men don't think about "the one that got away." That's woman thinking.
Anonymous
09/17/2024 22:34
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Tell me your fantasies (keep it PG) and feelings and regrets.
I am curious what men think about their former flames. I rekindled a romance with mine but broke things off and stopped contact once I realized he wanted an AP. I’ll always love him on some level but don’t want to speak again, even though he reached out. I understand now to “leave the past, in the past.”
What's an AP? And you ghosted him??
affair partner
Anonymous
09/17/2024 22:29
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Anonymous wrote:Tell me your fantasies (keep it PG) and feelings and regrets.
I am curious what men think about their former flames. I rekindled a romance with mine but broke things off and stopped contact once I realized he wanted an AP. I’ll always love him on some level but don’t want to speak again, even though he reached out. I understand now to “leave the past, in the past.”
What's an AP? And you ghosted him??
Anonymous
09/17/2024 21:39
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Cool story, bro.
Anonymous
09/17/2024 21:11
Subject: Men who still think about the one who got away
Tell me your fantasies (keep it PG) and feelings and regrets.
I am curious what men think about their former flames. I rekindled a romance with mine but broke things off and stopped contact once I realized he wanted an AP. I’ll always love him on some level but don’t want to speak again, even though he reached out. I understand now to “leave the past, in the past.”
I am curious what men think about their former flames. I rekindled a romance with mine but broke things off and stopped contact once I realized he wanted an AP. I’ll always love him on some level but don’t want to speak again, even though he reached out. I understand now to “leave the past, in the past.”