once or twice a year.

Now that we no longer have infants we each do at least one friends trip a year. Usually not more than that since we also try to do one couple trip a year as well. Plus DH travels for work about once a quarter as well. So between those plus family trips we have a lot of travel to do during the year!

He is always traveling for work so no extra fun trips unless it is a family vacation. Something has to give

Spring camping trip for 4 days. Same group has been doing it since college - 25 years. $150 per person.

Fall golf trip. Smaller - usually 6-8 guys for long weekend. More expensive bc of flights/hotel/golf but I think around $1500.

I think 2x per year is reasonable. More than that and I’d be worried about cost.

We each go on girls/guys trips once or twice a year.

Anonymous wrote:Never. I won't allow it.

You seem nice.

Never. He gets invited but finds “guy’s trips’ odd.

Me (female): Twice a year for about 4 days
Him: Never. I encourage it, but he doesn't seem to want to.

Anonymous wrote:How often does he see his friends (that involves a trip, not a night out)?

Once a year for each of us. Sometimes, one of us gets a second trip.

Never. I won't allow it.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe once a year for a “guy’s trip”, and 2-3 times a year for a work trip.

He sees his friends socially about once or twice a month. More in the summer because of golf.

(Sorry, I misread the part about NOT a night out.)

Since age 45, a lot. Probably 2-4 trips a year. Usually a long weekend of 3-5 nights. I don’t mind, we have just one kid and I work from home and handle most household stuff regardless so it doesn’t change my life.

3x per year

Maybe once a year for a “guy’s trip”, and 2-3 times a year for a work trip.

He sees his friends socially about once or twice a month. More in the summer because of golf.

How often does he see his friends (that involves a trip, not a night out)?