Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It actually sounds like you were spying on them. It’s one thing to randomly encounter someone in a restaurant. But you monitored them to their cars?!?!!!
Weird, man. Just stop. You are creepy.
I would be spying too if I saw two people I know who were married to other people on a date / making out. It is scarier that cheating is so acceptable to you that it woudn't even pique your curiosity.
Anonymous wrote:It actually sounds like you were spying on them. It’s one thing to randomly encounter someone in a restaurant. But you monitored them to their cars?!?!!!
Weird, man. Just stop. You are creepy.
Anonymous wrote:Do you know their spouses?
I think people have a right to know that there is a 3rd person in their marriage, putting their health at risk and that their marriage is a sham / facade. It is very humiliating for others to know your spouse is cavorting about while you look like a fool thinking all is well.
If you know the spouse or spouses, I would tell them what you saw.
The cheaters are the ones who have already messed up the marriages / families. Being complicit in the lies, betrayal and deciet isn't something I have any desire to be part of.
Anonymous wrote:I’m in academia and recently confirmed that 2 colleagues are having an affair. They’re both strange birds and have acted weird and uncomfortably close to each other for a couple years. I swear I’ve seen covert touching here and there. Others have noticed as well. They share an office and occasionally lock the door and not for a student meeting.
Well it was confirmed when I saw them out together at dinner in another town. (They didn’t see me). And I saw them making out in the parking lot before driving away in their separate cars.
This makes me sick. They are both solidly married with children. I don’t really know the protocol for this.