Anonymous wrote:To minimize our monthly payments on a 30 year mortgage we are considering taking out a 50k loan from my 401k. From my understanding if we make additional payments on the mortgage AFTER closing, it won’t actually reduce the minimum payment (this is how it worked with my student loans) but instead reduce the amount of time you have left.
So even if we throw 100k into it after we close we will simply have 27 years left vs 30 but still have high minimum payments every month. I want our monthly payments to be as low as possible so I’d rather take 50k from my 401k and aggressively pay it back (all interest goes to myself). I’m 34 and have a 450k 401k balance.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you can "aggressively pay yourself back" for the 401k loan, just do that in advance a save a bigger downpayment in the first place. Nobody wants to have to wait any more.
OP here, yes I was expecting people to say this but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to not want to wait for a house because it impacts your lifestyle significantly and playing the waiting game has only hurt people in the past 10 years.
I wasn’t aware of the recasting option. If you can do it with little to no fees I think this would be a good choice. I thought my only option would be a complete refinance which is heavy on fees
My friend did this at about the same age/net worth as you, against my objections, and it turned out fine. They paid back the 401k and got the house. Maybe they lost a little in market gains in the 401k, but to them, it was worth it. If you intend to recast, make sure your mortgage has a no-fee option to do it.
Anonymous wrote:Do NOT take money out of your retirement because you overspent on a house. If you can refinance to a 15 year depending on your interest rate. Pay in extra and every few years do a recast. We did two recast. It saved us a lot of money. We paid $250 each time.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you can "aggressively pay yourself back" for the 401k loan, just do that in advance a save a bigger downpayment in the first place. Nobody wants to have to wait any more.
OP here, yes I was expecting people to say this but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to not want to wait for a house because it impacts your lifestyle significantly and playing the waiting game has only hurt people in the past 10 years.
I wasn’t aware of the recasting option. If you can do it with little to no fees I think this would be a good choice. I thought my only option would be a complete refinance which is heavy on fees
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you can "aggressively pay yourself back" for the 401k loan, just do that in advance a save a bigger downpayment in the first place. Nobody wants to have to wait any more.
OP here, yes I was expecting people to say this but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to not want to wait for a house because it impacts your lifestyle significantly and playing the waiting game has only hurt people in the past 10 years.
I wasn’t aware of the recasting option. If you can do it with little to no fees I think this would be a good choice. I thought my only option would be a complete refinance which is heavy on fees
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:If you can "aggressively pay yourself back" for the 401k loan, just do that in advance a save a bigger downpayment in the first place. Nobody wants to have to wait any more.
OP here, yes I was expecting people to say this but I don’t think it’s unreasonable to not want to wait for a house because it impacts your lifestyle significantly and playing the waiting game has only hurt people in the past 10 years.
I wasn’t aware of the recasting option. If you can do it with little to no fees I think this would be a good choice. I thought my only option would be a complete refinance which is heavy on fees
Anonymous wrote:If you can "aggressively pay yourself back" for the 401k loan, just do that in advance a save a bigger downpayment in the first place. Nobody wants to have to wait any more.