Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:37
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Anonymous wrote:It escapes me why people make their Venmo transactions available for other people to look at.
It is really super weird.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:36
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Yes, I have felt this jealousy myself, sad to say. I think people only make public the “cool” things they do.
I do find it super weird. That venmo even has the option to make these things public. Does absolutely everything we do now need to be a social post?
I do find it super weird. That venmo even has the option to make these things public. Does absolutely everything we do now need to be a social post?
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:33
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
I don’t friend people on Venmo & all transactions are discreet
No one needs to know what I do & I sure as heck don’t want to know “everyone’s hanging out without me”
Don’t scroll OP! What you felt is natural but avoidable!
No one needs to know what I do & I sure as heck don’t want to know “everyone’s hanging out without me”
Don’t scroll OP! What you felt is natural but avoidable!
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:30
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Anonymous wrote:It escapes me why people make their Venmo transactions available for other people to look at.
I figure they must not realize everyone can see their transactions.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:29
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It escapes me why people make their Venmo transactions available for other people to look at.
Exactly. This is the real issue here.
+1. Genuinely curious why people do this. For those who do…why?
Also OP, I totally get feeling left out of a lunch with coworkers you are friendly with. I don’t think that’s crazy. But don’t fixate on it or let negative self talk make it into a bigger thing than it is
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:24
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
I would never think to look at someone’s Venmo transactions. It’s odd they made it public.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:20
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Anonymous wrote:It escapes me why people make their Venmo transactions available for other people to look at.
Exactly. This is the real issue here.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:19
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
It escapes me why people make their Venmo transactions available for other people to look at.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 19:04
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Anonymous wrote:Is that weird?
I just went on Venmo to pay my son’s math tutor, and I saw one of my work friends pay another work friend for lunch. They obviously had lunch together today, and I got a little pang that they didn’t invite me. I mean, it’s not like I invite all of my colleagues every time I have lunch out. It’s fine. But I was kind of jealous.
Anyone else feel this way? Am I crazy?
You must be crazy. It's obviously why they don't like you and leave you out of the lunch groups. There is pribably a group chat you are not included in too.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 18:15
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Yes but not with Venmo. I don’t have Venmo big my spouse does.
Fomo is real though, even if it’s something I didn’t want to do anyway.
Fomo is real though, even if it’s something I didn’t want to do anyway.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 18:14
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
This is the downside of social media, for sure! Feeling left out is normal.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 18:00
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Anonymous wrote:You're a little bit crazy. But that's okay.
Yes, this.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 18:00
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
social media and its ilk are the devil. The companies are out to make you feel bad about yourself, and then they monetize your FOMO in some way.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 17:59
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
You're a little bit crazy. But that's okay.
Anonymous
09/05/2024 17:58
Subject: I get jealous of people’s Venmo transactions
Is that weird?
I just went on Venmo to pay my son’s math tutor, and I saw one of my work friends pay another work friend for lunch. They obviously had lunch together today, and I got a little pang that they didn’t invite me. I mean, it’s not like I invite all of my colleagues every time I have lunch out. It’s fine. But I was kind of jealous.
Anyone else feel this way? Am I crazy?
I just went on Venmo to pay my son’s math tutor, and I saw one of my work friends pay another work friend for lunch. They obviously had lunch together today, and I got a little pang that they didn’t invite me. I mean, it’s not like I invite all of my colleagues every time I have lunch out. It’s fine. But I was kind of jealous.
Anyone else feel this way? Am I crazy?