Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 09:29     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was looking for a good oversized sweatshirt to wear for dog walks and weekends when the weather gets cold. When I looked on the Anthropologie site I saw a ton of sweatshirts that said stuff like "Wifey" and "Fiancé". Do people actually wear these? It seems incredibly obnoxious. They also had stuff that said "Bride" and "Maid of Honor" which is also kind of obnoxious but I could see someone wearing to a bachelorette party or the week of the wedding. But like is someone walking around wearing a sweatshirt that says Wifey.

There's also a brand called Favorite Daughter selling sweatshirts that say "Dad's Favorite" or "Mom's Favorite" and while I get these are meant to be kind of tongue in cheek next to the other ones it just comes off as very braggy.

Is this a new trend? I have never been a message tee person but it's never bothered me that other people wear them. But these feel self-absorbed and braggy in a totally different way. And I say that as someone who is married and was a fiancé and has even been a maid of honor and might be described privately as my mom's favorite daughter. But I can't imagine wearing any of this stuff. Can someone explain it to me.


People are wearing them on the plane to their honeymoon destination. Or at their bachelorette. Or whatever. MYOB. No one will make you wear one.


OP here. That's what I would normally assume but these are expensive sweatshirts. Like $80-120. Not a $20 joke tee. Are people really spending $100 on a sweatshirt they will wear to their honeymoon destination or their bachelorette and then (presumably) never again? I guess the price point made me think this is something people are buying to wear somewhat regularly while they are engaged or after they are married. Which strikes me as strange.


I'm sure they wear them around the house. Lounge wear. Stop monitoring other people.


I'm not "monitoring" anyone. I saw something I didn't get and am asking about it because I don't understand and I think something like this would have been viewed negatively when I was in the phase when people were getting engaged and married. It doesn't sound like you have bought or would wear one of these sweatshirts so perhaps you aren't in a position to explain.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 09:24     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was looking for a good oversized sweatshirt to wear for dog walks and weekends when the weather gets cold. When I looked on the Anthropologie site I saw a ton of sweatshirts that said stuff like "Wifey" and "Fiancé". Do people actually wear these? It seems incredibly obnoxious. They also had stuff that said "Bride" and "Maid of Honor" which is also kind of obnoxious but I could see someone wearing to a bachelorette party or the week of the wedding. But like is someone walking around wearing a sweatshirt that says Wifey.

There's also a brand called Favorite Daughter selling sweatshirts that say "Dad's Favorite" or "Mom's Favorite" and while I get these are meant to be kind of tongue in cheek next to the other ones it just comes off as very braggy.

Is this a new trend? I have never been a message tee person but it's never bothered me that other people wear them. But these feel self-absorbed and braggy in a totally different way. And I say that as someone who is married and was a fiancé and has even been a maid of honor and might be described privately as my mom's favorite daughter. But I can't imagine wearing any of this stuff. Can someone explain it to me.


People are wearing them on the plane to their honeymoon destination. Or at their bachelorette. Or whatever. MYOB. No one will make you wear one.


OP here. That's what I would normally assume but these are expensive sweatshirts. Like $80-120. Not a $20 joke tee. Are people really spending $100 on a sweatshirt they will wear to their honeymoon destination or their bachelorette and then (presumably) never again? I guess the price point made me think this is something people are buying to wear somewhat regularly while they are engaged or after they are married. Which strikes me as strange.


I'm sure they wear them around the house. Lounge wear. Stop monitoring other people.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 09:20     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I was looking for a good oversized sweatshirt to wear for dog walks and weekends when the weather gets cold. When I looked on the Anthropologie site I saw a ton of sweatshirts that said stuff like "Wifey" and "Fiancé". Do people actually wear these? It seems incredibly obnoxious. They also had stuff that said "Bride" and "Maid of Honor" which is also kind of obnoxious but I could see someone wearing to a bachelorette party or the week of the wedding. But like is someone walking around wearing a sweatshirt that says Wifey.

There's also a brand called Favorite Daughter selling sweatshirts that say "Dad's Favorite" or "Mom's Favorite" and while I get these are meant to be kind of tongue in cheek next to the other ones it just comes off as very braggy.

Is this a new trend? I have never been a message tee person but it's never bothered me that other people wear them. But these feel self-absorbed and braggy in a totally different way. And I say that as someone who is married and was a fiancé and has even been a maid of honor and might be described privately as my mom's favorite daughter. But I can't imagine wearing any of this stuff. Can someone explain it to me.


People are wearing them on the plane to their honeymoon destination. Or at their bachelorette. Or whatever. MYOB. No one will make you wear one.


OP here. That's what I would normally assume but these are expensive sweatshirts. Like $80-120. Not a $20 joke tee. Are people really spending $100 on a sweatshirt they will wear to their honeymoon destination or their bachelorette and then (presumably) never again? I guess the price point made me think this is something people are buying to wear somewhat regularly while they are engaged or after they are married. Which strikes me as strange.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 09:18     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:Braggy? This post is weird


How would you describe it? I do think it's braggy to wear clothes that identify your marital status. It shouldn't be a brag but when someone is walking around wearing a Fiancé or Wifey t-shirt unironically then it absolutely is about them bragging about their status.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 08:12     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Braggy? This post is weird
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 08:08     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:I feel this new expensive fitness club would speak to you:

https://sportyandrich.com/


Is that real??
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 07:52     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:I feel this new expensive fitness club would speak to you:

https://sportyandrich.com/



NP. This is hilarious! Thank you for posting.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 06:54     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anybody remember the "I'm With Stupid" t-shirts ?
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 04:54     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

No words on me and even the Nike swoosh needs to be tiny.
Anonymous
Post 09/03/2024 03:43     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:I can't explain it. I don't wear shirts with words on them as a rule.


Same. Nor do I hang anything in my house with words on it.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2024 22:10     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Anonymous wrote:I was looking for a good oversized sweatshirt to wear for dog walks and weekends when the weather gets cold. When I looked on the Anthropologie site I saw a ton of sweatshirts that said stuff like "Wifey" and "Fiancé". Do people actually wear these? It seems incredibly obnoxious. They also had stuff that said "Bride" and "Maid of Honor" which is also kind of obnoxious but I could see someone wearing to a bachelorette party or the week of the wedding. But like is someone walking around wearing a sweatshirt that says Wifey.

There's also a brand called Favorite Daughter selling sweatshirts that say "Dad's Favorite" or "Mom's Favorite" and while I get these are meant to be kind of tongue in cheek next to the other ones it just comes off as very braggy.

Is this a new trend? I have never been a message tee person but it's never bothered me that other people wear them. But these feel self-absorbed and braggy in a totally different way. And I say that as someone who is married and was a fiancé and has even been a maid of honor and might be described privately as my mom's favorite daughter. But I can't imagine wearing any of this stuff. Can someone explain it to me.


People are wearing them on the plane to their honeymoon destination. Or at their bachelorette. Or whatever. MYOB. No one will make you wear one.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2024 22:03     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

Of course there are people who buy this! Newly engaged or married people, people buying gag gifts for sisters or daughters, etc.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2024 22:00     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

I feel this new expensive fitness club would speak to you:

https://sportyandrich.com/
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2024 21:57     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

I can't explain it. I don't wear shirts with words on them as a rule.
Anonymous
Post 09/02/2024 21:52     Subject: Braggy message tees and sweatshirts?

I was looking for a good oversized sweatshirt to wear for dog walks and weekends when the weather gets cold. When I looked on the Anthropologie site I saw a ton of sweatshirts that said stuff like "Wifey" and "Fiancé". Do people actually wear these? It seems incredibly obnoxious. They also had stuff that said "Bride" and "Maid of Honor" which is also kind of obnoxious but I could see someone wearing to a bachelorette party or the week of the wedding. But like is someone walking around wearing a sweatshirt that says Wifey.

There's also a brand called Favorite Daughter selling sweatshirts that say "Dad's Favorite" or "Mom's Favorite" and while I get these are meant to be kind of tongue in cheek next to the other ones it just comes off as very braggy.

Is this a new trend? I have never been a message tee person but it's never bothered me that other people wear them. But these feel self-absorbed and braggy in a totally different way. And I say that as someone who is married and was a fiancé and has even been a maid of honor and might be described privately as my mom's favorite daughter. But I can't imagine wearing any of this stuff. Can someone explain it to me.