Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 08:50     Subject: Re:Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Meddling DC Mommy Karens never disappoint.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 07:59     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Second family.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 07:57     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Not your circus. Not your monkeys. It's an old Russian saying.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 07:43     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

I know someone who had a whole other family. It was like something out of a bad movie. If I were her I would hire a private investigator if she can pay them without him figuring out. Absent that I’d try to figure out what was going on so as to get a jump start on dealing with him sheltering money, etc.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 07:38     Subject: Re:Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

I had a friend whose father was like this. He was an older dad. Turns out, he had a previous wife and family, and would go to see them. The current wife knew. They just didn't want their children to know.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 07:36     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Ask her how is their marital sex life? If she says Great, then you will know he is NOT cheating (confidence=90%). If she says Not Great, then he IS cheating (confidence=100%).
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 07:11     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Anonymous wrote:How do you know his job doesn't
require travel? Is he paying for these trips himself?
There are people at work that travel more than necessary and not all are having affairs. Some people just don’t want to be home and helping with the day to day.


+1. This is my thought, just wants to get away from the family.
Anonymous
Post 08/16/2024 02:20     Subject: Re:Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Yes obviously this man is having an affair.

I think his wife must strongly suspect one as well.

She needs to put her foot down + demand he help out w/the house & kids.

But something tells me at this point it may already be too late. ⏰
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2024 22:58     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Anonymous wrote:I have a friend whose husband travels a lot. I don’t want to say his job but his main job does not require travel. My friend often complains he is not home or leaves abruptly for days. He does not help with the house or kids at all. We know plenty of people who travel for work or pleasure but this situation is the only time it feels like he is definitely having an affair or affairs and traveling unnecessarily. When he does travel, he tacks on days, goes earlier than planned. My friend says she isn’t sure where he is sometimes.

Does this sound like a big red flag?


Honestly, who cares and it’s not your business.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2024 22:57     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Yes
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2024 22:49     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

Not your marriage, not your business.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2024 22:44     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

I think the solution to this for you is Mind Your Own Business.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2024 22:17     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

How do you know his job doesn't
require travel? Is he paying for these trips himself?
There are people at work that travel more than necessary and not all are having affairs. Some people just don’t want to be home and helping with the day to day.
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2024 22:16     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

What's with all the posts lately outlining a clearly ridiculous situation and asking if it's normal?

Was this posted by AI that was trained on r/AITA posts?
Anonymous
Post 08/15/2024 22:12     Subject: Man who travels unnecessarily often - cheating?

I have a friend whose husband travels a lot. I don’t want to say his job but his main job does not require travel. My friend often complains he is not home or leaves abruptly for days. He does not help with the house or kids at all. We know plenty of people who travel for work or pleasure but this situation is the only time it feels like he is definitely having an affair or affairs and traveling unnecessarily. When he does travel, he tacks on days, goes earlier than planned. My friend says she isn’t sure where he is sometimes.

Does this sound like a big red flag?