Interesting responses, I never realized so many go to bed early at 8/8:15. We are finishing dinner and hw at that hour. Do you all SAH?

Due to birthday my 4th grader is 9 turning 10. 10pm bedtime.

8 pm and up at 6 am

Go to bed or fall asleep? Mine falls asleep at 9:15 like clockwork no matter when she starts bedtime. Wakes up around 6:30, sometimes as late as 7:00.

8-8:15p

All of ours (5,7,10) go to sleep around 9/9:30. They are up on school days at 8 (school starts at 9). With activities it’s tough to get them in bed earlier!

11 hours before they have to wake up.

We read a book together from 7:45-8:15 give or take and he is in bed and asleep by 8:30. He has always been an early bird. He wakes at 5:30-6 daily. My younger ones are not like this. They are in bed by 8 but are chatting away and generally messing around until 9 (or 10 last night).

8pm

My 4th grader is wired as a night owl. In bed lights out 930, I think he often isn't asleep till 10. Up 20 min before we leave for school, always a mad dash. Sleeps to 830-9am if he can.

Lights out at 9. Half the time she is asleep earlier but that’s the limit.

In bed around 8, reads for a while, used to be asleep around 8:30 but that's been pushed back to 9 due to some anxiety at bedtime. Is consistently up between 6-6:30 if not a little earlier.

8:00 pm

8pm, which crept up to 8:30 halfway through the year for 2nd dc. They’d get 20 minutes to read after bedtime

It probably matters what time they have to get up for school.

DH and I are wildly apart on this issue and would love to know what others do.