Would think would want to give a parade of thanks when a family member takes brunt of caregiving, but hard if that one is playing the martyr where only reason taking brunt is not letting anyone else help and it’s a fight if try. This description of martyr caregiver syndrome won’t fix what’s going on, but reading it did help me better understand situation so linking here in case others experiencing. https://multiculturalcaregiving.com/impacts-of-caregiver-martyr-syndrome/