Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My kid was sick on a vacation once, fever etc.
I remember laying with her in shade on a beach and thinking about how it sucked, but then thinking about how parents on the other side of the world are pushing their babies off beach’s in rubber boats to escape war, and that put it in some perspective for me.
You just had to go there, didn't you?
Well why not? finding perspective helps me reframe and not sink into feeling sorry for myself. I was at the beach recently and dealing with teen sassiness. I was feeling bummed about missing the old days when my kids were so happy at the beach. I saw a mom tube feeding her kid who looked like he had severe cerebral palsy—and it gave me perspective because my kids can talk and run and do all the things this kid can’t and…that mom looked happy! I can’t promise she was, but she wasn’t feeling sorry for herself.
So Op…I’m truly sorry you’re feeling crummy on your long awaited vacation! I really am. We don’t have a ton of money to travel, so it’s a big deal to me. I would be bummed too. But I think we can ALSO be grateful about other things to keep us from sinking too low, like the pp suggested.
I hope you feel better soon!