Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:45     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
Anonymous wrote:Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.


Cool!
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:45     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
Alpha men don't wear condoms. Especially when they're doing Brokeback Mountain type of stuff.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:44     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
The ones I knew all drank and womanized too much. However the ones from the south put their wives on a pedestal and still rake in the dough at work, play sports weekly, and have alpha scholar athlete kids.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:43     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
Im a professionally successful woman, I was married for a decade to a “beta male”. I was in charge and he followed along. Clearly that didn’t work as we are no longer married. The professional environment in which I thrive is not the same in which I thrive personally.

I am now dating a man who you probably consider “alpha”. He just makes sure stuff gets done. He is as liberal politically as I am, and doesnt see me as a second class citizen at all. But he views it as his job to make sure Im good. Im safe. Im taken care of. Same with my kids, his kids, his parents and younger siblings, etc. He does things for me that I could do myself. He makes my life easier. To use the tik tok parlance that “alpha male” comes from, I am a passenger princess. He holds doors and carries heavy things and pushes the cart in the grocery store. I can go out with him without a purse and be fine (lack of makeup for a touchup aside) because he can take care of whatever I need. He is the head of the household and takes that responsibility very seriously. And he absolutely dominates me in bed, in a very consensual, safe manner.

10/10, highly recommend men who are “men”.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:42     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
I have a strong personality and have a hard time respecting people who will let me push them around.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:39     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
Bill Clinton was always described by his admirers an alpha, if that cuts through all the redditors here acting like it’s a dirty word.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:33     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
Anonymous wrote:OP here. I’m just using the term because it’s popular now. I’m referring to men who like to take on the traditional male gender role….ambitious, stoic, dominant, are some adjectives that come to mind.


Sounds like toxic masculinity to me what you are describing here.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:13     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
OP here. I’m just using the term because it’s popular now. I’m referring to men who like to take on the traditional male gender role….ambitious, stoic, dominant, are some adjectives that come to mind.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 16:04     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
If you use the word "alpha" to describe someone, you likely don't know the actual definition or have ever met a real one.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 15:42     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
Anonymous wrote:I need someone who is more alpha than me. I am pretty ambitious myself, but also want to feel like the woman.


Can you talk a little more about what this looks like in your relationships? What makes you feel like a woman?
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 15:02     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
I’m a 2. DH is an 8. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 15:02     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
Anonymous wrote:I need someone who is more alpha than me. I am pretty ambitious myself, but also want to feel like the woman.


Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 15:01     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
What is an alpha man? Is that one of those doughboys with Gadsden flags on their license plates and fantasies about how they might use the AR-15 they bought thinking they could take on the US military if it came for their guns? Do they spend a lot of time on Andrew Tate podcasts confusing the rantings of a mad man with insight? Do they think Ben Shapiro is an intellectual? I really need to know.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 14:57     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
I need someone who is more alpha than me. I am pretty ambitious myself, but also want to feel like the woman.
Anonymous
Post 08/01/2024 14:30     Subject: If you pair well with “alpha” men
If you work well in relationships with alpha men personalities, what is your personality like? What makes you feel loved? Are you opinionated?