Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:27     Subject: A Special Request

jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You want to remain anonymous, but you also want your own section so you know who everyone is?

New Yorkers are stranger than I thought.


Don't knock it. This may be the first time in history that New Yorkers are admitting that DC has something better than New York.


Well then, you must call the forum "DC Pizza is better than NY" and see if they post.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:26     Subject: A Special Request

jsteele wrote:Yes, this is something that I will consider. For the time being, please continue to use the New York forum. Also, consider whether your non-NYC topics might fit into one of our existing forums, even though those discussions would include a larger group.

Finally, please propose a name for the forum.


New poster here. I’ve tried posting in the regular forums on non NYC specific questions but it just doesn’t work.
Example, very average NYC incomes are considered astronomical by DC standards and so everyone thinks you’re humble bragging while you’re really just asking a real question about real choices that only New Yorkers get given the insane COL here.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:18     Subject: A Special Request

jsteele wrote:Yes, this is something that I will consider. For the time being, please continue to use the New York forum. Also, consider whether your non-NYC topics might fit into one of our existing forums, even though those discussions would include a larger group.

Finally, please propose a name for the forum.


Thank you so much! I will get back to you about a proposed name, but in the meantime think of us as the Urban Baby Refugees.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:15     Subject: A Special Request

jsteele wrote:
Anonymous wrote:You want to remain anonymous, but you also want your own section so you know who everyone is?

New Yorkers are stranger than I thought.


Don't knock it. This may be the first time in history that New Yorkers are admitting that DC has something better than New York.


Touché
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:14     Subject: A Special Request

Anonymous wrote:You want to remain anonymous, but you also want your own section so you know who everyone is?

New Yorkers are stranger than I thought.


Hard to explain, but we've all been chatting anonymously for almost 20 years. It's what we're used to. We "know" each other but we don't.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:14     Subject: A Special Request

Call them the Urban Baby Mamas
jsteele
Post 07/16/2024 09:13     Subject: A Special Request

Anonymous wrote:You want to remain anonymous, but you also want your own section so you know who everyone is?

New Yorkers are stranger than I thought.


Don't knock it. This may be the first time in history that New Yorkers are admitting that DC has something better than New York.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:13     Subject: A Special Request

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did your old home have you log in? Just create accounts here and then you can find each other.


No, it was anonymous and that was the big appeal. We prefer to remain such to each other.


Maybe one of you should make your own site


We did. Twice. No one is willing to take up that mantle again.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:12     Subject: A Special Request

You want to remain anonymous, but you also want your own section so you know who everyone is?

New Yorkers are stranger than I thought.
jsteele
Post 07/16/2024 09:12     Subject: A Special Request

Yes, this is something that I will consider. For the time being, please continue to use the New York forum. Also, consider whether your non-NYC topics might fit into one of our existing forums, even though those discussions would include a larger group.

Finally, please propose a name for the forum.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:11     Subject: A Special Request

Anonymous wrote:Did your old home have you log in? Just create accounts here and then you can find each other.


I was going to suggest the same but include using NYC or UB in every username from your group and you can use the NYC area to post most things.

Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:09     Subject: A Special Request

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Did your old home have you log in? Just create accounts here and then you can find each other.


No, it was anonymous and that was the big appeal. We prefer to remain such to each other.


Maybe one of you should make your own site
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:08     Subject: A Special Request

Anonymous wrote:Did your old home have you log in? Just create accounts here and then you can find each other.


No, it was anonymous and that was the big appeal. We prefer to remain such to each other.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:04     Subject: A Special Request

Did your old home have you log in? Just create accounts here and then you can find each other.
Anonymous
Post 07/16/2024 09:02     Subject: A Special Request

Hello, Jeff! I am writing on behalf of a small but enthusiastic group of moms who have been connecting online since the days of the original Urban Baby site. In the many years after Urban Baby was sold (and eventually shut down), we have wandered the web for a place where we can chat, argue, and reminisce with one another. Our most recent "home" has been taken over by a vexatious troll who the site owner is either unwilling or unable to moderate in any effective manner.

We are hoping that the DCUM community might offer us a place of refuge, and we would like to ensure that we can find one another in the crowd when we need to. We have initially agreed to meet up on the NYC Forum, but not everything we discuss is NYC-related (although most of us live in the NY metro area). We don't want to wear out our welcome here by posting on inappropriate topics for that forum, and we are hoping that you would consider creating a forum for us to use without annoying everyone else. Please let us know if that's a possibility, or if you have any other suggestions for us.

Thank you!

The UB/YB/WBM Refugees