Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 22:13     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
My BF has strong reactions to scents (headaches, sneezing, etc) but he is also the king of seasonal allergies (and is also allergic to cats). There are very few products that don't make him irritated in the sinuses. I just....went and bought those products. I did have to do a long search for fragrance-free hair product that works, but whatever.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 21:50     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
Anonymous wrote:Because there is no such thing as a serious medical allergy to fragrance. It’s not a thing. But please break with him and enjoy the solitude. Or maybe your find a kid to your pot.


Are you an allergist? A medical professional who studies allergy?

If not, then STFU

There is definitely severe allergy to fragrance.

I have become seriously ill from exposure to air freshener -- headaches, dizziness, overall ill feeling -- twice.

I can't wear any sort of fragrance, can't use skin care products, no fragrances in my home, no scented cleaning products, or I become ill.

If you don't suffer from it, then STFU and mind your own business.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 21:48     Subject: WWYD fragrance allergy
When you sought emergency medical care, what intervention was needed?
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 21:46     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because there is no such thing as a serious medical allergy to fragrance. It’s not a thing. But please break with him and enjoy the solitude. Or maybe your find a kid to your pot.


Some outgrow their perfume allergy, but there's no definitive cure. Management involves avoidance and carrying allergy medications.

I would consider it serious not life threatening but not a joke when a prescription medication is required.


Prescription hydrocortisone cream.

Please do tell, what medication treats this ailment? Don’t say Xanax!


A cream for a nasal allergy? Mmmkkkaaayyy. This might be a medical issue but it’s of a psychological kind.


It's an allergic skin reaction to fragrance.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 21:05     Subject: WWYD fragrance allergy
OP, I get it. I had a guy I was dating put something I couldn't eat into a meal. He was clueless.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 21:02     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because there is no such thing as a serious medical allergy to fragrance. It’s not a thing. But please break with him and enjoy the solitude. Or maybe your find a kid to your pot.


Some outgrow their perfume allergy, but there's no definitive cure. Management involves avoidance and carrying allergy medications.

I would consider it serious not life threatening but not a joke when a prescription medication is required.


Prescription hydrocortisone cream.

Please do tell, what medication treats this ailment? Don’t say Xanax!


A cream for a nasal allergy? Mmmkkkaaayyy. This might be a medical issue but it’s of a psychological kind.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 20:16     Subject: WWYD fragrance allergy
"Sorry, I cant sleep with you while I'm having an allergic reaction to your cologne."

I bet he'd stop wearing it pretty quick.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 20:14     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because there is no such thing as a serious medical allergy to fragrance. It’s not a thing. But please break with him and enjoy the solitude. Or maybe your find a kid to your pot.


Some outgrow their perfume allergy, but there's no definitive cure. Management involves avoidance and carrying allergy medications.

I would consider it serious not life threatening but not a joke when a prescription medication is required.


Prescription hydrocortisone cream.

Please do tell, what medication treats this ailment? Don’t say Xanax!
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 20:00     Subject: WWYD fragrance allergy
You’re the weird one in this relationship. Why did you sleep with him?!?
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 19:54     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because there is no such thing as a serious medical allergy to fragrance. It’s not a thing. But please break with him and enjoy the solitude. Or maybe your find a kid to your pot.


Some outgrow their perfume allergy, but there's no definitive cure. Management involves avoidance and carrying allergy medications.

I would consider it serious not life threatening but not a joke when a prescription medication is required.


Please do tell, what medication treats this ailment? Don’t say Xanax!
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 19:53     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
Anonymous wrote:Because there is no such thing as a serious medical allergy to fragrance. It’s not a thing. But please break with him and enjoy the solitude. Or maybe your find a kid to your pot.


Some outgrow their perfume allergy, but there's no definitive cure. Management involves avoidance and carrying allergy medications.

I would consider it serious not life threatening but not a joke when a prescription medication is required.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 19:50     Subject: WWYD fragrance allergy
Anonymous wrote:Break up. I’m puzzled how you can physically have sex with someone wearing an allergen, though.


I can't anymore.

I told him when we met I was allergic to fragrance. I asked him not to wear any cologne.

I am not allergic to anything else, not dogs, cats, penicillin, bee stings, peanuts, or shellfish.

I just have this sensitivity to some fragrances. Sunscreens for example must be fragrance free.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 19:49     Subject: Re:WWYD fragrance allergy
Because there is no such thing as a serious medical allergy to fragrance. It’s not a thing. But please break with him and enjoy the solitude. Or maybe your find a kid to your pot.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 19:43     Subject: WWYD fragrance allergy
Break up. I’m puzzled how you can physically have sex with someone wearing an allergen, though.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2024 19:39     Subject: WWYD fragrance allergy
If you were dating someone who told you she has a shellfish allergy, would you feed her shellfish because you don't believe her?

What would you think of someone who doesn't believe his date has a serious medical allergy to fragrance?

We have fragrance free products now for a reason.

Since the age of 15, I have suffered from a fragrance allergy. I have needed to go to the emergency room twice. I require a prescription hydrocortisone cream at times.

It's not as bad as it once was.

The man I'm dating and had sex with 2x doesn't understand. He is a highly educated lawyer. He doesn't understand his cologne and his laundry detergent could be causing me a skin allergic reaction.

I can't go out with him anymore.