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Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman. I find it creepy how they will do a deep dive into someone's life. My younger coworkers were talking about something they saw on TikTok where a woman filmed a guy on a plane and said he was cheating on his wife. Within like a day other women had found who he was, where he worked, and who his wife was. And they were messaging her. All based off someone unknown person claiming he was cheating. I find that so creepy. So ready to blow up a strangers life over an unsubstantiated claim.

How did they learn all this information from a photograph?

I don't know! The woman gave a few details that she overheard (where he was from, I think he's gone to a sports game the day before, and that he had his own business). And that plus a picture of his face and suddenly people were able to put the pieces together. I've heard my coworkers talk about other times this has happened too. Im 38 so not that tech challenged, but I'm amazed by the snooping my under 30 coworkers are able to do.

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Anonymous wrote:Look up the address of everyone they meet to see how much their house costs.

That's nosy. Not creepy. Creepy is driving by the houses multiple times a day.

It is creepy. It’s online drive bying.

Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman. I find it creepy how they will do a deep dive into someone's life. My younger coworkers were talking about something they saw on TikTok where a woman filmed a guy on a plane and said he was cheating on his wife. Within like a day other women had found who he was, where he worked, and who his wife was. And they were messaging her. All based off someone unknown person claiming he was cheating. I find that so creepy. So ready to blow up a strangers life over an unsubstantiated claim.

How did they learn all this information from a photograph?

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Anonymous wrote:Trying to dance seductively while 50 lbs (or greater) overweight.
This goes for men too, but they do it less often.

Seductive dancing at any weight is best left to professionals. Poles can make most people look creepy or crazy.

Not creepy. So to you women who are "50 pounds or more" should be not be allowed to dance? Dancing can lead to weight loss so why would you be unsupportive?

Anonymous wrote:Look up the address of everyone they meet to see how much their house costs.

That's nosy. Not creepy. Creepy is driving by the houses multiple times a day.

Anonymous wrote:Refer to wine as mommy juice. And then proceed to suck down a bottle in a night like it’s nothing.

How is this creepy? I don't think it fits the definition. cringy yes but not creepy

creepier; creepiest
Synonyms of creepy
1
: producing a nervous shivery apprehension
a creepy horror story
also : EERIE
2
: of, relating to, or being a creep : annoyingly unpleasant
a creepy old man
creepily
ˈkrē-pə-lē
adverb
creepiness
ˈkrē-pē-nəs
noun
Synonyms
eerie
eery

I'm a woman. I find it creepy how they will do a deep dive into someone's life. My younger coworkers were talking about something they saw on TikTok where a woman filmed a guy on a plane and said he was cheating on his wife. Within like a day other women had found who he was, where he worked, and who his wife was. And they were messaging her. All based off someone unknown person claiming he was cheating. I find that so creepy. So ready to blow up a strangers life over an unsubstantiated claim.

Anonymous wrote:I think it’s creepy when grown women flirt with young men - sons of friends. That includes hugging and suggestive talk that embarrasses the younger male.

Not a good look for middle age.

Why are we having this discussion? Are you a creepy woman or man?

Comment on other peoples bodies—especially young women. The other day, I randomly remembered a time when I was about 13 or so and a woman whose kids I babysat occasionally came up to me at a church function and said I needed to get a new bra. I looked down and yeah, my boobs had outgrown it a little, but damn, who says something like that to a young teen—especially in a time or place when they can do exactly nothing about it? Not sure if that was creepy or just mean. I wouldn’t dream of saying something like that to anyone.

Look up the address of everyone they meet to see how much their house costs.

Refer to wine as mommy juice. And then proceed to suck down a bottle in a night like it’s nothing.

Anonymous wrote:Trying to dance seductively while 50 lbs (or greater) overweight.
This goes for men too, but they do it less often.

Seductive dancing at any weight is best left to professionals. Poles can make most people look creepy or crazy.

Do you mean that DCUM is full of Mrs. Robinsons?

You know this thread isn’t going to go anywhere constructive given the core demo of dcum. Why even start it?

I think it’s creepy when grown women flirt with young men - sons of friends. That includes hugging and suggestive talk that embarrasses the younger male.

Not a good look for middle age.