Anonymous
Post 06/18/2024 21:58     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Yes and yes. You should give the gift even without having had a disagreement. She looks after your kids. You share the experience of being a mother. A gift to her son acknowledges her child, in light of all the things she does for yours.


Second. How is this even a question ?


Why not? OP has no obligation to get anything for anyone in the nanny's family. As long as the nanny is being properly compensated, all good.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2024 21:35     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

What was disagreement about? Do you feel now that you were wrong?
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2024 21:22     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

I want to hear about the disagreement.
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2024 11:06     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Anonymous wrote:Yes and yes. You should give the gift even without having had a disagreement. She looks after your kids. You share the experience of being a mother. A gift to her son acknowledges her child, in light of all the things she does for yours.


Second. How is this even a question ?
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2024 04:16     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

$50 is too low
Anonymous
Post 06/18/2024 03:39     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Yes
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 23:01     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Yes and yes. You should give the gift even without having had a disagreement. She looks after your kids. You share the experience of being a mother. A gift to her son acknowledges her child, in light of all the things she does for yours.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 22:54     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Without question
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 22:40     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Yes
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 22:29     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

It would be a nice gesture, absolutely.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 22:28     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Anonymous wrote:Is he graduating from kindergarten or Hs or …?


HS
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 21:55     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Is he graduating from kindergarten or Hs or …?
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 21:54     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

Yes
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 21:49     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

I think that would be a nice gesture.
Anonymous
Post 06/17/2024 21:35     Subject: Should I get nanny’s son a graduation gift?

I don’t usually give her gifts, except for a bonus at Christmas. But we had a minor disagreement recently and maybe this would be a nice gesture? Or would she see it as overcompensating?


And if I do, would $50 Amazon gift card be appropriate or too low?