We bring in a chef for events like you are describing.

topsail steamer in Bethany is the obvious answer. We like the one that comes with shrimp, kielbasa, veggies, etc..

Bethany Blues does catering (though not clambakes)

Thanks for the google comment. I feel bad for people who always have to be so rude. Does it really make you feel better??
I am definitely not a company, but that would make this easier!
Top Sail Steamer doesn't come to your house. It sounds great, but I wanted something a little nicer, and to be honest, a full-service option. Delmarva could work. I had already inquired with them, but haven't heard back yet.
I am surprised that all the caterers stink - because a lot of the restaurants are quite good I think! I may pivot to going to a restaurant.

You are not going to find a good caterer in Bethany. They all stink.

Beach Topsail Steam is most likely your best bet.

I would maybe ask Bethany Seafood the small place on US1 if they have any interest. Past Fins on the right going south.

Let me google it for you. There are SO many but maybe try
https://bethanybeach.topsailsteamernc.com/
https://www.delmarvaboilcompany.com/

Unless you are one of those companies doing some guerrilla marketing and trying to drum up business?!

A little random question, but...
I would love to host a home gourmet bbq/clambake at our place in Bethany Beach to celebrate a milestone birthday in August.
Having a super hard time finding any company that does this - I mistakenly thought it would be easy!
Has anyone ever done this and might have a recommendation?
Thanks!