Give only what you are comfortable with. The amounts people post here can sometimes seem very excessive. I only give to family unless we are invited to a party and then I’d probably give $50 unless they had given a more generous gift to my child for graduation. A few years ago I gave my oldest nephew $100 while my sister who is far wealthier gave my oldest $0. I told myself it was probably an oversight. We both have second-borns the same age so when their HS graduation rolled around I decided to wait to see what she gave mine. She gave my 2nd born $50. I am now just giving $50. If we were wealthier I might give more but we are very middle class (no money for vacations and 2 kids at state U).

$100

$50.

Give the same amount you give for birthdays.

Anonymous wrote:$100 bill.

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$100 bill.

Anonymous wrote:$20 cash

Are you dialing in from 1991?

$50 or $100 depending on how close you are.

$20 cash

Same as for birthday or $50, whichever is more.

She’s always given a gift card to my children for holidays and birthdays. I’ve done the same.

But for graduation, how much do you give? No registry.