Anonymous wrote:I read on here and Reddit all the time about people, mostly men, who spend hours upon hours playing video games like they are 12 year olds. How is this attractive? How do people find time to do this? Especially those who are parents. I sincerely don’t understand. Do your kids just watch you play video games? Do you play with them?
Anonymous wrote:I dunno, OP. I would never date, let alone marry or have children, a man addicted to video games. I agree it’s not attractive to me. Some people like it though or at least don’t mind it, and that’s great for them. Every pot has a lid or whatever, right?
Anonymous wrote:I have a husband who plays video games. I have no problems with it.
1. I am an introvert who needs a lot of alone time. It's nice to not have a needy man clinging to me all the time.
2. My husband uses this time to burn off steam from his very high-stress job. He is a lot happier when he interacts with our family because of it.
3. He still takes time to do his part to contribute to our family. Mostly he plays for a few hours after work and on weekends.
4. I would rather have a husband that plays video games than one who goes out with "the boys" every night and comes home trashed.
It works for me, I understand how it doesn't work for everyone.