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Anonymous wrote:You understand that tuition rates have grown astronomically faster than wages since you were in college, right?

Of course I understand. We can easily afford to pay tuition. However, even if we couldn’t, I would encourage my children to apply and attend the best college possible.

I know many kids going to UVA and W&M could have gone to “better” schools. I’m sure this is more from public high schools, not private. If you are already paying 50k for high school tuition, paying 80k for college tuition probably would not be a factor in deciding where to go to college.

1. If you couldn't afford to pay, then why would you encourage your children to apply and attend the "best college possible"?

2. Your statement about a person paying $50K being able to pay $80K (and rising)(It's actually $90K now, generally) makes assumptions and is erroneous.

3. Yes, people pick publics and privates with merit aid over "better" brand-name schools because of money.

Dh and I want to HYP grad schools. I earned high six figures and Dh now earns seven figures. I don’t think it would have been possible without our education.

Is this supposed to be an answer to the above?

YES.

30K/yr for UMD in-state.
40-ishK/yr for UVA in-state, depending on program.
My oldest goes to a private university, sticker price 85K/yr, actual price 65K, due to merit.

This is because his chosen major has a much better reputation there than at UMD, which would be in-state for us. He turned down UMD Honors.

But if my younger kids want to major in STEM, I'd be happy for them to attend UMD. We're wealthy, but have conserved assets in part by enrolling our kids in good public schools and not throwing too much money out of windows

I do not blindly buy into the hype of college branding, even though I agree with you that name recognition/course rigor/access to top-notch programs has its place in decision-making.

This is because building generational wealth, which I assume is the goal of most middle class families, isn't solely dependant on the name on a college diploma. You can set up your kids to do very well in life if wealth is funneled into your kids' downpayments on homes, etc, so they live debt-free and can stretch in their investments at an early age.

Anonymous wrote:My parents did not pay for my college or grad school. I never considered any public universities in state or out of state. I am from NY. I applied to schools I was interested in, got financial aid and graduated grad school with loans and paid it off pretty quickly. I worked in investment banking and private equity in NYC so it was fast.

I’m surprised at how many people choose state schools in VA and MD.

Are students that afraid of debt?

All these families are better off financially than my family was when I was going to college. The cost of college was not a factor for me. I just knew I would pay it back.

It makes sense for investment banking, since public universities are not loved on wall street. If you majored in anything else, public u would serve you just as well. You'd pay those loans even faster.

I’m paying $50k for high school and I don’t want to pay $80k for college.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You understand that tuition rates have grown astronomically faster than wages since you were in college, right?

Of course I understand. We can easily afford to pay tuition. However, even if we couldn’t, I would encourage my children to apply and attend the best college possible.

I know many kids going to UVA and W&M could have gone to “better” schools. I’m sure this is more from public high schools, not private. If you are already paying 50k for high school tuition, paying 80k for college tuition probably would not be a factor in deciding where to go to college.

1. If you couldn't afford to pay, then why would you encourage your children to apply and attend the "best college possible"?

2. Your statement about a person paying $50K being able to pay $80K (and rising)(It's actually $90K now, generally) makes assumptions and is erroneous.

3. Yes, people pick publics and privates with merit aid over "better" brand-name schools because of money.

Dh and I want to HYP grad schools. I earned high six figures and Dh now earns seven figures. I don’t think it would have been possible without our education.

Did you also have connections? I find that that goes a lot further than the education.

Anonymous wrote:Virginia has some fantastic state schools. Why pay for private when you can get a better education, with a larger alumni network, at a public?

UVA is definitely better than SUNY.

Because it’s a terrible waste of money. Particularly right now when you are basically paying to be indoctrinated by anti-semites and fund encampments for entitled brats who would not survive two days in Gaza under the “leadership” of the very people they are defending.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You understand that tuition rates have grown astronomically faster than wages since you were in college, right?

Of course I understand. We can easily afford to pay tuition. However, even if we couldn’t, I would encourage my children to apply and attend the best college possible.

I know many kids going to UVA and W&M could have gone to “better” schools. I’m sure this is more from public high schools, not private. If you are already paying 50k for high school tuition, paying 80k for college tuition probably would not be a factor in deciding where to go to college.

1. If you couldn't afford to pay, then why would you encourage your children to apply and attend the "best college possible"?

2. Your statement about a person paying $50K being able to pay $80K (and rising)(It's actually $90K now, generally) makes assumptions and is erroneous.

3. Yes, people pick publics and privates with merit aid over "better" brand-name schools because of money.

Dh and I want to HYP grad schools. I earned high six figures and Dh now earns seven figures. I don’t think it would have been possible without our education.

Anonymous wrote:Virginia has some fantastic state schools. Why pay for private when you can get a better education, with a larger alumni network, at a public?

I definitely think this is geographic. Publics were not the norm where I grew up. I don’t think my friends’ kids are considering publics either.

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Anonymous wrote:You understand that tuition rates have grown astronomically faster than wages since you were in college, right?

Of course I understand. We can easily afford to pay tuition. However, even if we couldn’t, I would encourage my children to apply and attend the best college possible.

I know many kids going to UVA and W&M could have gone to “better” schools. I’m sure this is more from public high schools, not private. If you are already paying 50k for high school tuition, paying 80k for college tuition probably would not be a factor in deciding where to go to college.

1. If you couldn't afford to pay, then why would you encourage your children to apply and attend the "best college possible"?

2. Your statement about a person paying $50K being able to pay $80K (and rising)(It's actually $90K now, generally) makes assumptions and is erroneous.

3. Yes, people pick publics and privates with merit aid over "better" brand-name schools because of money.

Virginia has some fantastic state schools. Why pay for private when you can get a better education, with a larger alumni network, at a public?

Image that. Different people make different choices. Some because they choose to and some because they have to. I know a lot of people who do state for undergrad and for grad do private. but hey, keep on judging! You way is the only way!

Anonymous wrote:You understand that tuition rates have grown astronomically faster than wages since you were in college, right?

Of course I understand. We can easily afford to pay tuition. However, even if we couldn’t, I would encourage my children to apply and attend the best college possible.

I know many kids going to UVA and W&M could have gone to “better” schools. I’m sure this is more from public high schools, not private. If you are already paying 50k for high school tuition, paying 80k for college tuition probably would not be a factor in deciding where to go to college.

You understand that tuition rates have grown astronomically faster than wages since you were in college, right?

My parents did not pay for my college or grad school. I never considered any public universities in state or out of state. I am from NY. I applied to schools I was interested in, got financial aid and graduated grad school with loans and paid it off pretty quickly. I worked in investment banking and private equity in NYC so it was fast.

I’m surprised at how many people choose state schools in VA and MD.

Are students that afraid of debt?

All these families are better off financially than my family was when I was going to college. The cost of college was not a factor for me. I just knew I would pay it back.