Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:52     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
I have these and my BF LOVES them:

https://www.victoriassecret.com/us/vs/panties-catalog/1122551600?choice=63DA&genericId=11225516&limit=45&resultPosition=5&searchBrand=vs&searchedFor=Leather&categoryTwo=new%20markdown

I also have the coordinating bra that has an attached collar. I wear it with tall black boots and it looks very sexy (leaning towards slutty).
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:48     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Great idea, OP! I agree you can’t go wrong with number 2. Have fun!
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:47     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Anonymous wrote:So I am the only one surprised that people actuallY clicked on the links?


Yep! I've clicked on the links now, knowing it is going to amazon and at least a few other people have done so and haven't been harmed.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:44     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
male 51 yo
number 2
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:36     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Doesn't that put a lot of pressure on him? Maybe just pack some oils and toys is the situation arises and wear a pretty but normal nightgown.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:24     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Sorry, they are just Amazon as I need something to get here soon! I guess that did seem shady. Thanks to the posters, I guess the garter belt stockings thing is sexier. I normally don’t wear lingerie so I have no idea what his preference is? I’m usually in pj bottoms and an old shirt!
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:20     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
So I am the only one surprised that people actuallY clicked on the links?
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:19     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Another guy here definitely #2. I wish I had a wife like you that cares this much. And I hope he appreciates you in return. Enjoy your romps lol some of us are stuck with unappreciative partners.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:12     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Just one guy here, but #2 is the clear winner. Also, I would care about what you wear over the lingerie. Ideally something suggestive but not slutty, with layers, zippers, buttons, etc. -- the more I want to get the clothes off but the longer it takes to do so, the hungrier I am by the end.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:05     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH


1 and 2 for the no-brainer win. 3 is also great but it just seems to require a bit more than dressing up - perhaps a bit of role playing too.

My DW has a drawer full of lingerie but rarely (almost never) wears any of it - many of the pieces she bought before we met so she must have enjoyed wearing it at some point in her life.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:02     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Anonymous wrote:I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH


Number two

At this point you must know what catches his eye, do that but just do more of it. Anything new will have the desired effect, the highest heels you can tolerate, stockings, slutty outfits, body stockings etc it doesn’t really matter as long as it’s something we haven’t seen before.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:01     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
Anonymous wrote:This just reminds me of the SATC episode where Charlotte was trying to spice things up with Trey and Carrie told her that she could go about that without buying flammable underwear. Good lord.


Oh no! Haven’t seen that. So you’re saying, embarrassing right?! Any better ideas?!
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 13:00     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
DH would hate any role playing type outfit (school girl, maid, etc). I have a set like option 2 and he likes it. His personal preference is something looser so that he can move around the cups so my boobs are bare. But honestly, he's always said he prefers me naked vs in lingerie.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 12:58     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
This just reminds me of the SATC episode where Charlotte was trying to spice things up with Trey and Carrie told her that she could go about that without buying flammable underwear. Good lord.
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 12:55     Subject: Sexy bed outfit advice
I’m surprising my DH with a weekend get away, kids at relatives. Things in bedroom have been non existent this month because we have been working, stressed, kids projects, events, etc.

I want to spice up our love life and get us back on track so hence the surprise get away and so while we are at hotel, I’m thinking of picking out a sexy or even trashy bed lingerie outfit and some oils to massage him. I’m in good shape so can rock most anything and I hope he’ll be into it. What is more attractive to men? Traditional sexy lingerie or like trashy maid/school girl? Some links I included for the look I’m thinking. Also, for the men, would this be cool to you? Or would you think it’s embarrassing?
https://a.co/d/82SgTzu
https://a.co/d/6zEssYH
https://a.co/d/0bPCfiH