Anonymous wrote:My kid just went test optional- doing great in college
Anonymous wrote:I don’t get why you don’t just list if they are boys and/or girls. Is the one in easier classes who scored well a boy and the one in harder classes who didn’t score as well a girl? That is often a typical pattern. The maturity rate fue boys and girls can vary. The one in harder classes has thought of herself as the smarter twin and it wasn’t a problem before. Now it has been equalized by the other twin getting better test scores. So now it seems they are equal. Doesn’t seem like a problem.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid just went test optional- doing great in college
more and more colleges are requiring tests.
OP, maybe send your kid to SAT prep. I think it's about confidence. I have two DCs and they are like yours: one got a 1580 first (and only) try; the other is struggling with their psat.
I'm the OP. Thank you!
He/she has been doing 2 hours of prep a weekend with a tutor (1:3 ratio--1 tutor, 3 kids) for months. I bought a package of hours at a place (not super high end place but an established company). My first kid never even went (had some schedule conflicts) and then got the high scores and that was that.
This second kid has been doing questions with the tutor. Probably 15 visits for 2 hours a time?
Are are there better tutoring options?
I am so frustrated by this. Not because I care that much about the scores. I ultimately don't. He/she could go test optional or apply to different schools.
Because within the dynamic of our family (twins) it is causing such an issue. As parents we don't talk about it. We are as chill as can be. Never mention the SAT or ACT. But the second kid compares himself/herself to the sibling. I know that life isn't fair, we don't all succeed at everything, etc. And it very well might be that twin #2 never figures this out. But I'm in the information gathering stage to see if there is more help that we can get before we call it a day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid just went test optional- doing great in college
more and more colleges are requiring tests.
OP, maybe send your kid to SAT prep. I think it's about confidence. I have two DCs and they are like yours: one got a 1580 first (and only) try; the other is struggling with their psat.
I'm the OP. Thank you!
He/she has been doing 2 hours of prep a weekend with a tutor (1:3 ratio--1 tutor, 3 kids) for months. I bought a package of hours at a place (not super high end place but an established company). My first kid never even went (had some schedule conflicts) and then got the high scores and that was that.
This second kid has been doing questions with the tutor. Probably 15 visits for 2 hours a time?
Are are there better tutoring options?
I am so frustrated by this. Not because I care that much about the scores. I ultimately don't. He/she could go test optional or apply to different schools.
Because within the dynamic of our family (twins) it is causing such an issue. As parents we don't talk about it. We are as chill as can be. Never mention the SAT or ACT. But the second kid compares himself/herself to the sibling. I know that life isn't fair, we don't all succeed at everything, etc. And it very well might be that twin #2 never figures this out. But I'm in the information gathering stage to see if there is more help that we can get before we call it a day
Maybe just let it go, then. TO is still an option for so many schools. You and your kid need to decide if it's worth it to keep pushing this if you aren't seeing the returns and the kid is just getting more stressed/upset.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid just went test optional- doing great in college
more and more colleges are requiring tests.
OP, maybe send your kid to SAT prep. I think it's about confidence. I have two DCs and they are like yours: one got a 1580 first (and only) try; the other is struggling with their psat.
I'm the OP. Thank you!
He/she has been doing 2 hours of prep a weekend with a tutor (1:3 ratio--1 tutor, 3 kids) for months. I bought a package of hours at a place (not super high end place but an established company). My first kid never even went (had some schedule conflicts) and then got the high scores and that was that.
This second kid has been doing questions with the tutor. Probably 15 visits for 2 hours a time?
Are are there better tutoring options?
I am so frustrated by this. Not because I care that much about the scores. I ultimately don't. He/she could go test optional or apply to different schools.
Because within the dynamic of our family (twins) it is causing such an issue. As parents we don't talk about it. We are as chill as can be. Never mention the SAT or ACT. But the second kid compares himself/herself to the sibling. I know that life isn't fair, we don't all succeed at everything, etc. And it very well might be that twin #2 never figures this out. But I'm in the information gathering stage to see if there is more help that we can get before we call it a day
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kid just went test optional- doing great in college
more and more colleges are requiring tests.
OP, maybe send your kid to SAT prep. I think it's about confidence. I have two DCs and they are like yours: one got a 1580 first (and only) try; the other is struggling with their psat.
Anonymous wrote:My kid just went test optional- doing great in college