Anonymous
05/01/2024 03:16
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
The people I know who do this very obviously want a specific ex to see their posts.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 23:55
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
Anonymous wrote:You can ask her to have a phone-free date. See what her response is.
I'll try this. Thanks.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 22:30
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
Yes, I have some friends like this. It is not my preference, but they have other awesome qualities that I love, so I’m not going to ask them to change. Up to you if you are ok with it or want to mutually agree on what is posted - that’s fair.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 22:25
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
You can ask her to have a phone-free date. See what her response is.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 22:21
Subject: Re:Dating and constant social media posts
Anonymous wrote:
She's definitely lacking self confidence and needing to "show" people on social media she's moved on, is dating, is going to certain places, etc. Kind of pathetic- move on
+1
Anonymous
04/30/2024 22:10
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
Anonymous wrote:I've been dating someone for the past three months and she consistently posts everything we do on social media. On Instagram in her stories she posts what we ate, drank, and every stop we make. She's posted numerous selfies in my home. We're over 40. I'm not sure if she's just excited to be out or what, but is this normal behavior in 2024? It feels like she has something to prove to someone.
Arrested development.
Is she immature in other aspects of her personality as well?
Anonymous
04/30/2024 22:06
Subject: Re:Dating and constant social media posts
Anonymous wrote:
She's definitely lacking self confidence and needing to "show" people on social media she's moved on, is dating, is going to certain places, etc. Kind of pathetic- move on
Right. That's how it feels to me.
OP
Anonymous
04/30/2024 22:06
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
Anonymous wrote:Gross. I know women who did this with relationship but they were younger (late 20s/early 30s) and it was a decade ago. It comes off as extremely insecure to me, especially in someone older. You should not need other people to see your relationship in order to feel good about it.
It feels like insecurity to me too.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 21:28
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
Gross. I know women who did this with relationship but they were younger (late 20s/early 30s) and it was a decade ago. It comes off as extremely insecure to me, especially in someone older. You should not need other people to see your relationship in order to feel good about it.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 21:26
Subject: Re:Dating and constant social media posts
Anonymous wrote:
She's definitely lacking self confidence and needing to "show" people on social media she's moved on, is dating, is going to certain places, etc. Kind of pathetic- move on
+1. Sorry OP. This is a huge red flag. For someone over 40 it’s downright embarrassing.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 21:24
Subject: Re:Dating and constant social media posts
She's definitely lacking self confidence and needing to "show" people on social media she's moved on, is dating, is going to certain places, etc. Kind of pathetic- move on
Anonymous
04/30/2024 21:16
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
Ugh. No. I couldn't deal with that.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 21:09
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
Run
Anonymous
04/30/2024 21:08
Subject: Re:Dating and constant social media posts
What a turn off.
Anonymous
04/30/2024 21:06
Subject: Dating and constant social media posts
I've been dating someone for the past three months and she consistently posts everything we do on social media. On Instagram in her stories she posts what we ate, drank, and every stop we make. She's posted numerous selfies in my home. We're over 40. I'm not sure if she's just excited to be out or what, but is this normal behavior in 2024? It feels like she has something to prove to someone.